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关于新片MOTHERHOOD

(2010-01-27 21:46:08)
关于新片MOTHERHOOD
租这部电影之前,就知道自己一定会感同身受。没想到会感同身受到大哭不止,一次一次指使MIRA拿纸巾给我。
没试过放弃自己的事业,一手养大小孩的妈妈不会懂得这部电影。
不过比较起来,我还是比影片里的ELIZA轻松很多。
我学到的影片关键词:PASSION, ACCEPTING, MOM-OIR(MOM 和MEMOIR和起来的一个词,很形象哦)

下边Eliza(妻子) 和AVERY(丈夫)吵架的一段,把我的小女子伤怀都勾引出来。
Eliza: His name was Mikesh, and he was just being nice.He looked at me like I was a person who might still have something worthwhile to say.
Avery: I always tell you that you have something worthwhile to say.You...you need a stranger to tell you that? Was he goodlooking or...?
Eliza: He looked at me like I might still be somebody woth looking at.
Avery: How could you not know that you're worth looking at? Were you attracted to him? Were you?
Eliza: It's just that you never look at me that way anymore, Avery.
Avery: Do you look at me that way?
Eliza: No, not really. Not enough.But I still love you Avery, I really love you, but...
Avery: But what....
Eliza: It's just that everyday from the second I wake up till the second I pass out cold, my day, like the day of almost every other mother I know, is made up of a series of concrete, specific actions. and they're actions that knid of wear away at passion, if you know what I mean, The actions are petty and small like....like refilling coffee cups or folding underwear. But they accumulate in this really debilitating way that deminishes my ability to focus on almost anything else. Bigger things like, you know, ideas or politics or dreams of a better life.
Avery: Well, what would be a better life? It wasn't always my ambition to supervise a team of fatuous liberal arts gradutates. and edit their copy about traveling to places that we can't afford to visit. when we had Clara, I got a job with healthcare and a little bit of flexibility. It was a decistion that we made. We made the decision together. So I got a job that  I can tolerate. No more, no less. You're not the only one who's made sacrifices, Eliza.
Eliza: Well, that still doesn't explain why you can't pick up your socks.
Avery: What do my socks have to do with it?
Eliza: Your socks have everything to do with it!
Avery: Eliza, all i wanted you to do in that piece, was to stop hiding behind irony because it comes so easily to you. I want to know what you really think. I want to know what you really feel. what makes you want to live a life with passion, no matter how many socks you have to pick up. what about that?

还有妈妈和女儿的一段话
Clara: What are you writing? .........
Eliza: It's kind of important. It means mommy might get a real Job.
Clara: But I don't wnat you to get a real job.
Eliza: Why not? It's good when mommies work. it keeps mommies happy. It keeps them from being mean, nasty yelling mommies. What about daddies? Should daddies not work, too? Why moms not dads, hmm? Enlighten me.
Clara: Cause moms do everything. Dads only do some things. It's different.

ELIZA为了参加竞赛要写一段关于MOTHERHOOD的感受,下边是她真正的感受:
Motherhood is about accepting the limitations of time and energy, which strecth beyond you, even if sometimes it feels they could consume you. search for and hold on to your own true self. If you lose that, what kind of mother can you be? things are always changing no matter how much we might want things to stay the same.You could take a picture of your kids every single day, and every single day they'D Just be getting older. that's a fact, a heartbreaking fact. but it's still a fact. So seize your days and dwell in them fully. Look to your children because they know how to inhabit briet periods of time with extreme passion. and for nothing more, really, than the sake of those moments. They can help you remember that, if you only slow down and let them. Feel fortunate because chances are good you actually might be.

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