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友谊

(2007-01-01 20:53:38)
分类: 心灵鸡汤

   

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曾经有一个男孩,脾气很坏。他父亲给他一袋子钉子,并告诉他,每次发脾气时你就在后墙上钉一个钉子。

第一天,小男孩就在墙上钉了37个钉子。过了几周,因为他学着去控制自己的情绪,每天所钉钉子的数量逐渐减少。他发现,控制自己的情绪比在墙上钉钉子更容易。

终于,有一天小男孩再也不发脾气了。他告诉了父亲,父亲建议他,从现在起只要能控制自己的情绪你就每天拔出一个钉子。

随着时间的流逝,小男孩终于可以告诉父亲所有的钉子都拔完了。父亲拉着儿子的手,带他来到后墙前。他说:“你做得很好,儿子,但是你看看墙上的洞。这墙再也不是从前的墙。当你和他人谈事时发脾气,留下的就像这些洞一样的伤疤。你可以在他人身上插一把刀,并拔出来。但是无论你说多少次对不起都无关紧要,因为伤口还在那里。”言语的伤害和身体行为的伤害一样严重。

朋友确实是稀世珍宝。他们让你微笑,鼓励你成功。他们倾听,分享荣耀,愿意向我们敞开他们的心扉。

Friendship
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There once was a little boy who had a bad temper. His father gave him a bag of nails and told him that every time he lost his temper he must hammer a nail into the back of the fence.

The first day the boy had driven 37 nails into the fence. Over the next few weeks, as he learned to control his anger, the number nails hammered daily gradually dwindled down. He discovered it was easier to hold his temper than to drive those nails into the fence.

Finally the day came when the boy didn't lose his temper at all. He told his father about it and the father suggested that the boy now pull out one nail for each day that he was able to hold his temper.

The days passed and the young boy was finally able to tell his father that all the nails had been removed. The father took his son by the hand and led him to the fence. He said, "You have done well, my son, but look at the holes in the fence. The fence will never be the same. When you say things in anger, they leave a scar just like this one. You can put a knife in a man and draw it out. But it won't matter how many times you say I'm sorry, the wound is still there. A verbal wound can be as bad as a physical act."

Friends are a very rare jewel, indeed. They make you smile and encourage you to succeed. They lend an ear, they share a word of praise, and they are willing to open their hearts to us.

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