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I need serenity

(2010-04-02 13:17:01)
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True serenity comes from within, but even Buddhists can use a little jump start now and then.

You Will Need

Opportunities to laugh
Time for family and friends
TV-watching time
Absorbing hobbies
And a gratitude journal
A new job

Step 1: Laugh often(经常笑)
Laugh as often as you can. It causes your heart rate and blood pressure to drop dramatically, leaving your feeling profoundly relaxed.

People with a strong sense of humor are less prone to depression and anxiety.

Step 2: Find time for friends(和朋友多聚会)
Find time for friends and family. Researchers who studied very content people found that every single one was extremely outgoing and reported strong social bonds.

Step 3: Take charge(掌控自己的生活)
Take charge of your life—even if that means standing up to a controlling loved one or finding a job that gives you more freedom. Confronting a troubling issue now will ensure more serenity later.

Step 4: Do what you love(做自己喜欢的)
Start a career doing what you love. A Swedish study found that people who work hard at something they find fulfilling are more satisfied with their lives.

No matter how much you love your job, take vacations: people who don’t are more susceptible to heart attacks!

Step 5: Don't feel guilty(不要内疚)
Be a couch potato without guilt. A study of women who kept a daily mood diary found that watching TV at night was their daily relaxation peak.

Step 6: Sleep more(充足的睡眠)
Get more sleep. A major impediment to serenity is fatigue due to lack of sleep.

Step 7: Return to nature(回归自然)
Go for a hike, take a walk on the beach, or garden—just get outside. Scientists believe that we’re actually hard-wired to relax when we’re in the presence of the natural world, including plants and animals.

Step 8: Go with the "flow"(顺其自然)
Go with the “flow,” which is the state of intense well-being that occurs when we are so immersed in an activity that we lose all track of time—researchers say this is a key to contentment.

Step 9: Keep a gratitude journal(记下一个感谢日记)
Keep a gratitude journal. Studies show it helps us want what we already have — the true key to happiness.

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