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大学生该不该结婚？
婚姻自古以来就是神圣的，双方自愿，年龄上也达到可以承受的要求，那就应该可以结婚了啊。婚姻是相爱的双方，对对方履行责任与义务，并在合法的范围内共同生活，共同分担困难，分享快乐。对于大学生这个特殊的群体，他们向往爱情，对婚姻的未知，使他们充满好奇，想要尝试。在国外，很多都是想结婚的双方完全自愿，就可以登记结婚。现在祖国允许大学生结婚，向大学生们示与人权，给所有到年龄的人以结婚的自由。可是，大学生就该结婚吗？
事实也许并不是这样，婚姻与爱情相比责任变多了，需要面对的问题变多了。恋爱的时候你也许只用考虑双方相爱就可以了，可是一旦结婚你不但要承受情感压力，还要承受生活、经济、社会……压力，由于大学生这个群体的特殊性，所以他们还要承受世俗传统造成的压力和他学生上不具备自食其力的养活一个家庭，所以经济压力也十分重要。
这到最后，付出太多换来的年轻稚嫩婚姻最后也难免走向极端。
同时在认识不足沟深，不足够了解，甚至在不谙世事时的相爱，也不免让人怀疑他的长久性，在什么都无需面对，不用负责时，在对什么都没有压力时，是不易看清一个人的，就不能确定两个人是否合适，是否能长久不退色。在这样的情况下，爱情都无法长久，何谈婚应呢？婚姻的越陈越香大多数情况下靠的不是爱情，而是果实，孩子是爱情，是婚姻能够持久保鲜的永恒的保鲜剂，可是大学生还在为前途奋斗着，还在自己都还是孩子，还在以学为生的时候，大多数情况是不能有孩子的，就算有孩子了，也无力抚养，无法供养，作为大学生还在没有条件去承担为人父母的角色，所以在轰轰烈烈的感情也难以永恒。
再者说，大学生心智还尚未足以成家，过早步入婚姻的殿堂也许只会徒增伤害和阴影。
所以青果固然诱人，可需慎食。
Is it allowed for Chinese on-campus students to get married before they complete their course?
Marrige is sacred, voluntary of both sides own accord and
the ages are enough , maybe they will bea ble
Maybe not, compare love and marrage, marrage is not only under emotion pressure, but also economy pressure, society pressure, life pressure and so on. Not love is all. Because the spacial, they may be under the society and custom pressure more. In addition, they almost can't support a family, so the economy is very important. Above all, gain more, maybe the end of that young marrage is finish.
At the same time, the young marrage must be lack of comprehend. But comprehend is the bradge of the marrage. A collegian couple may don't know what they will become in the new family. And when they take their hand to a family, they always can't be the new roles, they can't adjust in time. And on the other hand, children is the preserve freshness of the love forever. But collegian couple can't have them. Granted they give birth to the new life, but they can't feed them, bring-up them and instruct in them. And if that's true, can they study? If they can't study, can they have a better life in the future? If those all come true, their love can't preserve freshness, their marrage of couse go to die.
So though the plum is alluring, collegian must eat it carefully and cautiously.
我查的词汇:
sacred/sekrid/ 神圣的
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