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解读你的亲密关系---关于组合盘分析的一些要点摘译(2)

(2009-04-15 01:30:21)
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分类: 占星杂谈

组合盘中行星和北交点的相位

 

当组合盘中行星和北交点有合相位,那么,这段关系在目的和方向上都是很有意义的。如果北交点的相位不佳(有挑战相位),那么,关系双方会感觉这段关系的发展没有什么好处。

When a planet conjuncts the North Node in the composite chart, there can be a real sense of purpose and direction in the relationship. When the North Node is challenged, there can be a feeling that the relationship is not conducive to growth.

 

挑战和成长

根据我的经验,海王星的困难相位(包括合相)对于组合盘中的个人行星来讲是非常具有挑战性的。随着时间的发展,它们的影响力越明显。一段田园诗般美妙的爱情随着时间的流逝,慢慢会变得充满辛酸和痛苦。为什么呢?因为强烈的海王星的影响让一开始的感情过于美妙,而无暇顾及真正的现实。双方很可能通过各自不同的方式,都美化了对方,而后来的相处,很难与最初的美好印象相媲美。

Neptune in hard aspect (including the conjunction) to personal planets in the composite chart can be highly challenging in my experience with composite charts. They generally play out over time. What starts as an almost idyllic relationship can turn sour and even bitter over time. Why? A strong Neptune can feel downright wonderful at the beginning, until reality starts to seep in. The couple may idealize each other, in different ways, and the wonderful first impressions can be hard to live up to. 

例如,在组合盘里有着月海冲。我们可以推见,组合盘里的月亮(作为一段关系的情感通道的),有了未来失望的可能性。在关系伊始,双方情感上会有强烈的熟悉感和舒服感,感觉到世上少有的默契。但是随着双方认识的发展和关系的提升,以及在一开始对于这段关系所抱有的不管提高的期望。期望越大,失望越大。月海冲相位会有如下的情形,也许,一方最初的感觉可能会认为另一半是世界上最支持自己的。但是,随着时间的发展,另一半毕竟也是人,不可能真的那么完美无缺。而问题的症结就在于海王星所带来的期望是如此之高,几乎神话了对方。另外一个海王星带来的问题就是缺乏界定。由于没有明晰清楚的沟通,往往个人对于关系的期望会在彼此间产生误解。有时候,会有完全的蒙蔽发生,但更多时候,并非这种情况。没有任何一方打算开出空头支票,但是他们很可能会充满自责的努力去让自己成为对方一开始就把认为的完美的偶像,并且战战兢兢的面对冷酷的现实或者承担责任。

Let's say there is a Moon opposition Neptune in a composite chart. We can see that potential for disappointment is connected with the composite Moon—the emotional pipeline of the relationship. At the beginning of the relationship, there can be a very strong feeling of familiarity and comfort, and an emotional connection that seems out of this world. The problem that can arise from the elation the couple feels on an emotional level can stem from the perceptions of each individual involved, and the expectations they develop in the early stages of the relationship. When elation brings you very high, the fall is hard. Some of the initial feelings that a comp. Moon opposite Neptune can generate include feeling like one's partner is the most supportive person one has ever met, for example. Over time, that partner will falter and stumble in the emotional department, as he or she is human. The problem with Neptune is that the expectations can be so great that they are inhuman. Another problem with Neptune is a lack of definition. Misunderstandings between individual expectations of the partnership are often the result of unclear communication. Sometimes, there is outright deception involved, but most of the time it is nothing of the sort. Neither party means to promise more than he or she can deliver, but they may be guilty of trying to fill the shoes of the ideal image that has been set up for them, and tip-toeing around hard cold facts or commitments.

如果月海冲相位中的该月亮同时和别的行星形成了拱相位或者六合相位,例如,受到水冥合相的拱或者六合,那么,这样就有了一条解决之道。在这种情况下,水冥合相表示能够将事物表达清楚透彻,并且深入到问题的本质。这样,这对情侣就有明显的机会可以克服冲相位的挑战,他们的方法就在于,愿意追求实质,并且从关系中获得成长。

If that same composite Moon opposition Neptune receives a supporting trine and sextile, for example, from Mercury conjunct Pluto, then we have an escape line. (Although, since we are talking about Neptune, "escape" would probably not be a good way of putting it. Handling Neptune effectively involves facing facts and making definitions, rather than escaping problems). There is a clear opportunity to get past the challenge of the opposition. In this case, Mercury conjunct Pluto suggests an ability to talk things through and get to the heart of the matter. Here, the couple has a clear opportunity to work through the challenges of the opposition, and the tools they have are their willingness to find meaning and growth opportunities in their relationship. 

当然,这里需要提醒的是,水冥合相有它们自身的缺陷。一方面,心理上的理解,和乐意深入探求对方态度和思考的模型,的确能够帮助双方成长。但是,另一方面,这将会导致双方的沟通倾向于有时候过于严肃和沉重,甚至有时候让人窒息。关于这一组合最消极的缺陷在于,一种要对情感层面感性的关系(月亮)的意义进行界定(水星)的强迫性(冥王星)的愿望,但是要么是一方对冲突避而不谈(海王星),要么是一方会面对冲突,但是另一方却按照自己所希望看到的方式去误读对方的回答,自欺欺人。因为冥水有相位,一方会有一种将对方的观念,塑造成自己想要听到(海王星)的观念的愿望。当然,以上只是对这种格局进行解读的一种方式,作为一个例子。

Mind you, Mercury conjunct Pluto has challenges of its own. On the one hand, psychological understanding, and a willingness to delve more deeply into attitudes and thought patterns of one another, can help the couple grow. On the other, there may be a tendency for communication between the two to be too weighty, too serious, and even compulsive. An especially negative manifestation of this whole configuration might be a compulsive (Pluto) desire to define (Mercury) the meaning of the relationship on the level of emotional attachment (Moon), but either one partner avoids (Neptune) the confrontation altogether, or if he or she does confront it, the other person misinterprets (Neptune) their partner's answers in an attempt to see what he or she wants to see (Neptune). With Pluto connected to Mercury, there may be a desire to direct the thoughts of one's partner, molding them into what he or she wants (Neptune) to hear. This is just one possible manifestation that serves as an example.

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