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Change for Everything I Dream Of

(2007-05-26 20:35:47)
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Change <wbr>for <wbr>Everything <wbr>I <wbr>Dream <wbr>Of
If there is a word most frequently in my mind recently, that’s “Change". If there is a question most connected with me, that’s “How can I have the Change For Everything I Dream Of right now ?”.

 

Absolutely, the key to achieving more than I currently am, no matter which area of my life or work I am focusing in on now, is Change. I’m pretty convinced that “If I always do what I have always done, I will always get what I’ve already gotten”. If I continue to work and live with the same people on the same schedule, I will make almost the same amount of money and experience almost the same feeling next year.

 

In order to move forward, I must change, no matter how formidable it will be or how cruel it seems to be.

 

Professionally and personally, the concept of change is simple to grasp. Most people are quick to say, “Oh, I know we need to change.” But where the problem starts, and why most people do not change, is because it is not “a piece of cake” to change or transform.

 

But, I firmly believe, through some professional training and personal endeavor , if the process is well thought out, and if I have the guts and determination to carry it out, change can happen, and I can move on to more fulfilled life, because the whole procedures are not so hard :

 

Discontentment with our current state.
The first step in the process of change is to not want to be where we currently are. We must be discontent with it. If we are in debt (e.g. for a house or an automobile), we must say, “I cannot tolerate this any longer.” If we have broken relationships, we must say, “I will not live with this.” This is a decision to change and not accept the status-quo. I’m not a greedy guy, but never.. I mean, I will never be content with what I have, but seek the very best of what I can have.

 

The picture of our preferred outcome.
What is it that we want to change to? It absolutely is not enough to say “I need to change.” It must be: “I am going to change to…” This becomes the goal or objective. We should get a mental picture of it formulated in our mind. Get a real picture of it if it is that tangible. Perhaps write a short essay, extolling the virtues of what life will be like when we get to the changed state.

 

New associations with the two states.
We must begin to associate our current state we are in with pain, and the state we want to be in with pleasure. This help us put up with all hardship or adversity and win the battle of the mind.

 

Develop a plan of short, simple steps.
If our goals are too big in too short of time, we will fail and become discouraged. Then we will quit and decide change can’t be accomplished. Instead, we must have short, workable, attainable goals if we are going to see real change happen and stay. These are the size steps we need to take. Then we will build victory after victory.

 

Discipline ourself.
Sorry but this is where it is up to us. At the heart of change is the ability to discipline ourselves. The only real obstacle standing between our current state and our desired outcome is ourself ! So do everything we can to get ourself motivated to change! Force ourself to get out of bed and get to work on our goals! Discipline ourself. Choose to make the right decision.

 

Reward ourself when we have made the change.
That’s right: reward ourself. We have worked hard and exerted a lot of self-discipline to get there! We deserve it! That's why I like to drink sometimes... Cheer up for each step !

 

Change <wbr>for <wbr>Everything <wbr>I <wbr>Dream <wbr>OfIt’s always easier said than done, but as always, I’m sure I can have a try –  take advantage of the opportunity I have every single day of my life to change, for some conviction on the way to Everything I dream of, including Love, Loyal friends, Security, Prestige, Popularity, Wealth, etc.

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