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承受是一種人生 轉

(2009-03-01 00:02:42)
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  承受是一种人生,人生需要学会支撑。

  当我们从娘胎里出世的那一瞬间开始,我们就学会用双手劈开枷锁,用双脚支撑大地。长大后,我们用勤劳与智慧支撑事业,支撑家庭,甚至期望用微弱的双肩支撑起整个社会的一点责任与荣耀。
  高楼大厦的矗立,因为有牢固的地基的支撑。为人处事,有支撑就一定会有承受,你能支撑起多少重量,就要承受多大压力。从某种意义上说,生活本身就是一种承受。
  承受是一种人生,做人必须学会:

  之一,承受痛苦。从我们落地的第一声啼哭,就蕴含了痛苦的声音。“人有悲欢离和,月有阴晴圆缺”漫长的人生路,痛苦有时必不可少。生老病痛的折磨,亲人间分离聚散的牵挂,命运潮涨潮落的迭起等等;痛苦时常扮演着不速之客的角色,往往不请自到。有些痛苦来的温柔,如同漫漫降临的黄昏,在不知不觉中让你感觉到人生的冰冷和黑暗;有些痛苦来势汹汹,如同海啸与地震的侵袭,一瞬间的天蹦地裂足以让人洞穿世态炎凉的无常与人生苦短的痛楚。

  之二,承受幸福。健康是一种幸福,平安是一种幸福,快乐是一种幸福,成功是一种幸福等等。幸福是老天给我们的一种恩赐,是上帝对我们人生的一种褒奖。当幸福来临的时刻,我们需要好好享受,品尝幸福这一杯美酒。但有时候,幸福也会轻而易举的击败一个人。当幸福突然来临的时候,人们往往会被幸福的旋涡淹没,从幸福的颠峰上跌落下来。因此,承受幸福如同追求幸福,就是要珍视幸福而不能一味的沉淀其中,如同面对一坛陈年老酒,一饮而尽往往会烂醉如泥不省人事,只有细品慢咂,才会品出真正的香醇甜美。
  之三,承受平淡。“平淡的日子象流水,它们是永恒的;快乐的日子象焰火,它们是短暂的”。人的一生中,除了幸福和痛苦,平淡的日子占据了我们生活的大部分时光。一个平凡的普通人,没有伟人的光芒,没有名人的花环,平平淡淡的人生,需要我们用一颗平常心去面对。承受这样一份平淡,同样需要一份坚韧和耐心,平淡如同一杯清茶,点缀着生活的宁静和温馨。在平淡的生活中,我们需要承受淡淡的孤寂与失落,承受挥之不去的枯燥与沉寂,还要承受遥遥无期的等待与希望。
  之四,承受友爱。爱是人类最珍贵的情感,也是我们生命中最不能轻言的承受之重。我们倍加珍惜友谊,会让生命在志同道合基础之上,用战友与同志的兄弟情深共同开创生命的辉煌。承受爱情,则会使我们心灵更臻充盈、完美。爱情是人类最美好的情感,学会承受爱情,无论成功与失败,无论得到与失去都无怨误无悔地祝福那个人。承受亲情,父母之爱重与泰山,我们的生命来自父母,我们的成长凝聚着他们的心血,感恩父爱与母爱,就象感恩血浓于水的兄弟姐妹那般一往情深。因为有爱,我们的生命如此多情;因为有爱,才让我们更加深切地体会到生命的重量与质量。
  在坎坎坷坷的人生路上,承受失败,会使我们的勇气更加坚定与深厚;承受成功,会使我们的信心更加激扬博发;承受责任,会使我们体会到生命的一份诚实与崇高......当我们终于学会心平气和地去承受与面对正在发生的一切时,那么,我们的思想与修为就上了一个层次,我们的人生就又上了一个台阶。

 


 

  Bear is a life need to learn to support life. 
  When we where born from the birth of that moment on, we learned how to split the yoke with both hands, using his legs to support the earth. Grow up, we use the hard-working with the intelligence to support the cause, supporting the family, even with weak shoulders expect support from the community as a whole that the responsibility and honor. 
  High-rise buildings standing, because the foundation has a solid support. People doing things, will have support on a certain subject, how much you can support the weight, it is necessary to bear much pressure. In a sense, life itself is a bear. 
  Bear is a life, man must learn to: 
  One of pain. From our landing of the first cry, it contains a painful voice. "People from, and have joys and sorrows, have clear one on the moon" a long road of life, suffering and sometimes indispensable. Health old illness, and relatives about the separation between the separation, the fate of high tide and down with wave after another and so on; pain often plays the role of uninvited guest, often unsolicited. Some of the pain to the gentle, as the long evening came, unwittingly let you feel the cold and darkness of life; some of the pain come back, as the invasion of the tsunami and earthquakes, the moment of the day jumped to crack enough perforated世态炎凉the impermanence and pain Life is short. 
  Bis, happy to bear. Health is a happy, Ping'an is a happy, Happiness is a happy and successful is a happy and so on. Are happy God gave us a gift of God to our life as a praise. When the arrival of the happy moment, we need to enjoy this happy cup wine tasting. But sometimes, happy will be easy to beat a person. When the happy arrival of a sudden, people tend to be happy vortex submerged, from the happy fall down on the peak. So, happy to bear as the pursuit of happiness is to value the happiness of one of the precipitation should not blindly, as the face of one old altar wine, glass of red slip down dead drunk often unconscious, and only slowly suck small goods until goods real sweet alcohol. 
  Ter, subject to insipid. "Dull days, like water, they are eternal; happiest days as fireworks, they are short-lived." Person's life, in addition to happiness and pain, dull day to occupy the most time of our lives. An ordinary man, not man's light, there is no celebrity rosette, flat light of life, we need to go with a normal face. Bear such an insipid, required a same tenacity and patience, like a cup of green tea plain, dotted with the quiet and warmth of life. Living in the bland, we need to bear a touch of solitude and loss, suffer lingering dry and quiet, but also to bear the wait and hope for the foreseeable future. 
  Of four, and are subject to friendliness. Love is the most precious human emotion, but also our lives most of the承受之重should not lightly. We treasure the friendship, make life in the like-minded basis, with comrade-in-arms and gay brothers love life together to create a brilliant future. Bear love, it will make us better souls filling, perfect. Love is the best of human emotions, learn to bear the love, regardless of success and failure, both have been lost have no complaints with no regrets and blessings of misuse of that person. Bear affection, parental weight and love of Mount Tai, and our lives from their parents, U.S. growth pool their efforts, Thanksgiving paternal and maternal love, as blood is thicker than water siblings Thanksgiving as passion. Since there is love, our life is so sentimental; because love has only let us more deeply to the weight and quality of life. 
  In Hom Ke bumpy road of life, and are subject to failure, we will be more firm with the courage of the deep; bear success, we will be boosting the confidence of more hair Hakata; bear the responsibility, we will experience life in a honest and noble. ..... when we finally learn to calmly go to bear to face what is happening, then, our thought and revised on an on-level, our lives again on a higher level.

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