這首歌最早是在初中的時候聽到，當時太小不懂事，不理解。
現在在《海盜電臺》電影里重再聽，深有感觸。

不僅因為當時前景影像是：死不鬆手的兒子在冰洋里搶救那死不鬆手搶救音樂CD的父親。
（BTW，我和yufi一致認為，那大鬍子爸爸如此執著磚牛角尖必然是處女座。。）

南京去一趟，很滿意，總歸是睡了一覺滿的。
啟程出行也是因為人生遇瓶頸，需要找出口，和信任的家人在一起。
有些東西也必須誠實面對，有些錯誤也必須重新反省，有些話也必須得認真對自己說一說。

但中文實在有點太直接，不得不再次躲在英文里。

It's nothing wrong to be superficial.

I admit that I am quite lack of knowledge or courage to follow the living which I always dream of and hunting for.
But I am not shame of it at all,I am still young,there is so much I need to know.

I wish to broaden my horizen freely and totally,and to fight，or simply to find,the things I like to do and the one I love to be with as well.

I won't let you down,my dearest family.

我們每天都在練習失去一些東西，小到手錶，鑰匙，手機；大到房子，愛人，家人。

“失去”這種技藝不難學習，卻要用上畢生的時間。

但有一樣絕對不能被失去，更不能被放棄，也絕對不能被妥協。

前天看採訪容祖兒，她淚流滿面說了說這樣東西：
“人必須要有一個夢想，永遠都不放棄，永遠不要放棄。因為，一定會實現。”

這不是煽情的戲碼，是真的。

@That's Shanghai編輯部

Father and Son

It's not time to make a change
Just relax--take it easy
You're still young--that's your fault
There's so much you have to know
Find a girl, settle down
If you want, you can marry
Look at me--I am old
But I'm happy

I was once like you are now
And I know that it's not easy
To become when you've found
Something going on
But take your time--think a lot
Think of everthing you've got
For you will still be here tomorrow
But your dreams may not...

How can I try to explain?
When I do--it turns away again
And it's always been the same
Same old story
From the moment I could talk
I was ordered to listen
Now there's a way, and I know
That I have to go away
I know, I have to go

End