The key to
happiness is this:Dedicate yourself to the developement of your
natural talents and abilities by doing what you love to do, and
doing it better and better in the service of a cause that is
greater than yourself.
However,
most people are reluctant to use their own happiness as the
standard by which to judge the events in their lives. This is
primarily because we let others define or affect what brings us
happiness. And we often believe it is more important to make other
people happy than it isto make ourselves happy.This is
nonsense.
The fact
is that you can't give away to anyone else what you don't have for
yourself just as you can't give money to the poor if you don't have
any, youcan't make someone else happy if you yourself are
miserable.
That is,
compare every possible action and decision against your standard of
happiness to see whether if would make you happier of unhappier.
Soon, you will discover that that almost all the problems in your
life come from choices that you have made-or are currently
making-that do not contribute to your happiness.
You feel
really happy only when you are moving,step-by-step, toward the
accomplishment of clearly defined goals that you feel will
enhance the quality of your happiness.
So resolve
to persist until you succeed. The first part of courage is hte
resolve to launch in faith toward your obiectives; the second part
is your willingness to endure in the face of the inevitable
disappointments and setbacks you will encounter on the
road.
摘抄的一篇文章,写得非常不错。每个人对幸福都有很多自己的理解,但是又有多少人真正悟透了幸福的真谛?幸福是一个大命题。
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