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Sexual Education (29)

(2006-04-10 12:01:15)
 
HOW TO APPROACH GIRLS

Think about the girl and not about YOURSELF
Show you're INTERESTED in her, ask questions
Watch how experienced BOYS approach GIRLS
THINK ABOUT

When you approach a girl for the
first time, she will probably be as
nervous as you, so don't be
discouraged if she seems a bit
off-hand, especially if she's with a
group of her friends. Give her time
to relax and think of ways to put
her at her ease
- she'll be put off if
you're aggressive or arrogant.

Make your first approach
somewhere very casual  , sit at her
table at lunch, offer to walk her
home from the school bus, or
speak to her at a place where lots
of other young people go, such as
a well-known coffee shop or burger
restaurant. Think about the
clothes you'll wear - be relaxed,
but be yourself. Try to do some
discreet research into her interests
and family background, and think
about some suitable conversation
topics in advance so you'll feel a
lot more confident yourself。
 
WORRIES AND
QUESTIONS..

Everyone worries about being
snubbed or put down, or worse,
about being made to look a fool.
Tension and worry will tend to
make you stutter, so stay as cool
and laid back as you can. Try to
pretend that you're talking to a
friend you feel completely at ease
with. To calm your nerves, repeat
to yourself the first couple of
things you plan to say and don't be~
afraid to take the initiative - girl.
expect that. The best thing you
can be is sincere, then you'll show~
that your interest is genuine.

GETTING HELP

   Ask an older brother, or a friend
of your brother, for advice on what
to say and do - and on the kind of
pitfalls you should avoid

   Choose a friendly adult,
hopefully mum or dad; but an
aunt, grandparent, or friend of
your parents, will do. Tell them
honestly what your fears are. They
ask for some suggestions based on
their wealth of experience.

    Buy or borrow some teenage
girls' magazines and study them
to find out what kind of interest-
girls are currently into.
You're at your BEST ..

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