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Forgiveness--The key to wholesomeness

(2012-05-07 10:50:31)
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"Forgive all who have offended you, not for them, but for yourself." by Harriet Nelson. Forgiveness is a gift that has been afforded to each human being. It is the responsibility of each person to seek counsel, advice, coaching and or healing in order to experience the rewards of forgiving.

Many people have a difficult time forgiving because in their heart they feel they have reason to hold something against another person. They justify why they do not forgive, they go on to explain what was one to them. Let's look at an example which is prevalent in our society. Many couples and marriages end up separated and divorced due to the act of infidelity. When this behavior occurs in a relationship and they go their separate ways, there will be some form of resentment, anger and un-forgiveness. I have personally learned to forgive family memberss that have caused injury to my emotions and my physical body. Now I am not saying it's easy, but I am saying that it is possible. I wil not go into detail in exactly what took place, but I will say that as long as I did not forgive those persons, I was miserable, unhappy and my whole focus was the emotional injuries that took place. I was stuck with feelings of un-forgiveness.

Forgiveness is the key to becoming whole again after a crisis has taken place in someone's life. The path of happiness and peace will not be experienced until the individuals seek help. Forgiveness is our portion. We are entitled to activate that precious gift that we have been given. It has to become an act of faith to release the person or persons who have caused you harm. All the solutions to life's problems are within us. Forgiveness can be one of the most difficult revelations to understand, but as you read, I hope forgiveness becomes a reality to you. Forgiveness heals people, cities, nations and the world. All are capable of putting down their own agendas and learn to forgive. Forgiveness brings freedom to our heart and mind.

Today as you read this article, make a conscious choice to start forgiving those that inflicted pain upon you. A wonderful and successful way to begin is to get a journal and start writing your thoughts. Take some deep breaths and look within for the answers you are looking for. It will not be long before some thoughts of people and situations that have taken place will come up. Write down the names and by an act of faith say "Today I forgive you(name the person) for all the hurt and damage you caused me. I release you and the power you had over me. No longer will hurt or resentment control my life."

Remember forgiveness is a gift you deserve.

Gladys, Born to Inspire Change

My articles will enlighten you, motivate and create a desire to move forward in your life.



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哈里特.尼尔森说过:“原谅那些冒犯你的人,不是为他们,而是为你自己。”宽恕是人类拥有的天赋。每个人都应该主动去寻找忠告和建议,来获得指导和治愈,从而体验到宽恕带来的正能量。

对许多人来说,原谅是一件很困难的事情,因为人们打心眼里认为他们有理由去为了捍卫某事而反对他人。他们为自己的不原谅寻找借口,然后去自圆其说。让我们来看一个社会上很普遍的例子。很多情侣或夫妻由于行为不贞,最后以分手或离婚收场。关系破裂,分道扬镳,而后彼此之间便有了各种怨恨、愤怒和不宽恕。我自己曾经学会去宽恕让我身心受伤的家人。现在我要说的并不是那样做不容易,而是,有可能那样做。我不会细说事情的来龙去脉,但是我想说只要我一天不原谅那些人,我就一天无法从痛苦和难过中解脱,完全囿于伤口中,被不原谅的负面情绪紧紧缠住。

宽恕,是人生遭遇危机后令你重获完整的途径。如果不去主动寻求帮助,就无法踏上幸福和平静之路。宽恕是人生与生俱来的一部分。我们有权去激活这份上天赋予的宝贵天赋。把放下他/她(们)对你的伤害,当作一种信仰行为。所有人生难题的解决之道其实都在我们心中。宽恕是我们最难理解的事情之一,但是随着你往下阅读,我希望宽恕对你而言会成为现实。宽恕令个人,城市,国家和世界都能获得治愈与和解。所有人都能做到放下执念去学习宽恕。宽恕,给我们的心灵和思想带来自由。

今天,当你阅读此文的时候,请你做一个明智的选择,去原谅那些曾经伤害过你的人吧。有一个成功有效的开始方法是找一本日记,记录你的想法。深呼吸,去叩问内心,去寻找答案。过去的人和事很快就会浮现眼前。那么写下他/她的名字,实施你的信仰行为,对那个名字说“今天,我原谅你对我造成的所有痛苦和伤害。你对我的影响,我已全部放下。伤痛和愤恨将不会再控制我的人生。”


记住,宽恕是你应得的天赋。


《格拉迪斯,生而去改变》


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