스컬(28ㆍ본명 조성진)，进入美国Billboard排行榜的第一个韩国人.

21. 在韩国年轻女性会被称为姐姐(언니)。 女性店员也经常称呼为姐姐。

22. 在韩国比起“谢谢”，更常用的是“做得好”。한국에서는 "고맙습니다" 대신에 "참 잘 ~하셨습니다"라는 표현을 사용하는 일이 많다.

23. 在韩国向老人或者比自己年龄大的人让位置是再正常不过的事情。

24. 韩国人不会在年长者或者父母面前抽烟。 尤其女性绝不会在大街上边走边抽烟。

25. 韩国人看到需要帮助的人不会装作没看见，会出手相助。

26. 韩国人对别人感情比较深。

27. 不少韩国人从洗手间出来时也不洗手。

28. 很多韩国人即便带着化妆纸(tissue)，也几乎不带手巾。

29. 韩国人比日本人更喜欢虚张声势，店铺也是比起实用性更注重外观。

30. 在韩国从吵嘴到动手不会很久，瞬间就能打起来。

31. 在韩国，女人也经常会叉开双腿而坐。

32. 韩国人的嗓门大，如果不仔细听则普通的谈话也像是在吵架。

33. 在韩国，F的发音是[i - p]，而日本是[i - hu]。 （예：ＫＦＣ＝케이 에프 씨）

34. 韩国人的爱国心相当强。

35. 韩国人喜欢干涉别人的事情。

36. 韩国的中年男子如果喝了酒则经常变得暴躁。

37. 韩国人的性子相当急，不管什么都是“快快~”（比如外卖稍微慢就着急）

38. 韩国人，从小孩到老人都会在大街上吐痰。

39. 韩国在说这“没错”并拍手的时候，会拍2次以上。.

40. 最常见的口头语是“哎呀~”， “都快要死了”，“快要疯掉了”。 한국인은 "아이고~" , "죽을 것 같애" , "미칠 것 같애"가 자주 말하는 입버릇이다.

21)한국에서는 젊은 여성에게는 거의 "언니"라고 부른다. 여성 점원에게도 "언니"라고 자주 부른다.
22)한국에서는 "고맙습니다" 대신에 "참 잘 ~하셨습니다"라는 표현을 사용하는 일이 많다.
23)한국에서는 노인이나 연장자에게 자리나 순번을 양보하는 것은 당연한 일 이다.
24)한국에서는 연장자 앞이나 부모 앞에서는 담배를 피지 않는다.특히 길거리를 다니면서 담배피는 일은, 여자는 하지 않는다.
25)한국인은 어려운 사람이나 난처한 경우를 보면 그냥 안지나치고 도와준다.
26)한국인은 사람에 대한 정이 두텁다.
27)한국인은 화장실에서 나올 때도 손을 안씻는 사람이 많다.
28)한국인은 보통 '티슈'는 갖고 다녀도 '손수건'을 갖고 다니는 사람은 거의 없다
29)한국인은 일본인에 비해 허세를 잘 부린다. 가게등도 실용성 보다는 외관에 치중한다.
30)한국인은 싸움이 붙는 데 까지, 그리 오랜 시간이 걸리지 않는다.

31)한국인은 여성들도 책상다리를 하고 잘 앉는다.
32)한국인은 목소리가 크다. 잘 귀기울여 듣지 않으면 그냥 얘기하는 것도 종종 싸우는 것처럼 들림.
33)한국인은 일본에선 Ｆ(에후)의 발음이 “에프”가 된다.（예：ＫＦＣ＝케이 에프 씨）
34)한국인은 애국심이 굉장히 강한 편이다.
35)한국인은 남의 일에 간섭하기를 좋아한다.
36)한국인중 중년 아저씨들은 술 마시면 종종 성격이 거칠어 진다.
37)한국인은 성격이 엄청 급하다. 뭐든지 "빨리 빨리~"(특히 식당등 주문시 조금만 늦으면.. )
38)한국인은 애들부터 노인들까지 길바닥에 침을 잘 뱉는다.
39)한국인은 "그렇다"하고 손을 두드릴 때, 2번 이상 두드린다.
40)한국인은 "아이고~" , "죽을 것 같애" , "미칠 것 같애"가 자주 말하는 입버릇이다.

这是韩国网站上广为流传的帖子。 韩日两国虽然关系一般，但又因为地理原因，关系密切。 这个帖子是日本在韩国的留学生，外交官，商人等总结出来的，用于初次去韩国的日本人参考。

翻译：韩国新网

1、韩国成年男性最喜欢的话题，同时韩国女子最讨厌的话题NO.1是“当兵的故事”。 就是韩国男人服役时候的事情。
2、韩国男性在交笔友的时候也会写上自己的身高、体重和长相。
3、韩国人中借走东西后忘记归还的人很多。 甚至会把借来的东西再转借给他人。（虽然看起来没有恶意，但...）
4、韩国人平常只叫对方的名字，但如果是吵架或者打架的时候则叫全名。 (예 : 보통때 - 길동씨! / 싸울 때 - 야! 홍 길동!!)
5、韩国女性打架的时候一般会抓对方的头发，还有谩骂对方。 比起日本则相当激烈。（尤其韩国大妈）
6、在韩国遇到走运的事情的人(比如升职)会请大家吃一顿。
7、在韩国倒酒的时候一定要看到对方喝完再倒。
8、在韩国两个女子可以在大街上无所顾忌的拉手，但这在日本容易被误会为女同。
9、熟悉了之后就会叫"오빠", "언니"
10、韩国女性择偶的条件顺序大致是 对我好/钱多/有实力
11、在韩国，男人不仅会为自己的女朋友买单，还会为女朋友的朋友买单。
12、韩国人迷信，假如男朋友和女朋友介绍自己的朋友认识， 这两个人成了男女朋友，则原来的一对会分手。
13、韩国人在说完'안녕하세요"后还经常问“吃饭了吗？
14、很多韩国人去吃饭的时候，买单的优先顺序是 1、男性 2、年龄大 3、钱多的人。 一个人全部买单。
15、在韩国，男朋友入伍为契机分手的情侣较多
16、在韩国和父母说话的时候，要对父母用敬语
17、在韩国不能顶撞老人。
18、在韩国可以讨价还价
19、在韩国拉勾约定比盖章签字更有效果
20、在韩国，男朋友每天给女朋友打电话是再正常不过的事情。

- 한국을 비교적 잘 아는日本人(특히 유학생&주재원)들이 본 한국/韓國人의 특징 or 특이한 점 100가지
1)한국 성인 남자가 가장 말하기 좋아하는 얘기이면서 한국 여자가 제일 듣기 싫어 하는 얘기 No1은 "군대 이야기"이다.
2)한국 남자는 펜팔 등에서도 자기 소개에 신장과 체중 혹은 얼굴들에 대해서도 쓴다.
3)한국인은 빌려간 물건을 갚는 것을 잊어버리는 사람이 많다. 또는 빌린 것을 다른 사람에게 또 다시 빌려 주기도 한다.(악의는 없는 것 같지만...)
4)한국인은 보통때는 이름만 부르지만, 막상 싸울 때는 왠지 풀 네임을 존칭(씨)없이 부른다.
   (예 : 보통때 - 길동씨! / 싸울 때 - 야! 홍 길동!!)
5)한국 여성이 싸울 때는 보통 머리를 끌어땡기거나, 멱살을 잡아 끌거나, 욕설을 하거나 일본에 비해서 굉장히 격하다. (특히 아줌마)
6)한국에서는 좋은 일이 있는 사람이 주변 사람에게 한 턱을 낸다.
7)한국에서는 술을 따를 때 잔을 비우고 나서야 따른다. (첨잔은 금물)
8)한국에서는 길거리에서 여자끼리 태연하게 손을 잡거나 팔짱을 끼고 거리를 지나간다. 하지만 일본에서는 "레즈"로 오해 받기 때문에..(하지만 한국에서도 남자끼리 그러면 "그 쪽"으로 오해 받는 듯 하다)
9)한국에서는 친해지면 금방 "오빠", "언니" 라고 부른다.
10)한국 여성이 "남성을 고르는 기준"은 대개 "잘 해준다/돈이 많다/실력이 있다" 순으로 판단한다.
11)한국인은 여자친구와 그 친구가 같이 놀게 되면 그 친구의 몫까지 돈을 내준다.
12)한국에선 남자친구의 친구와 여자 친구의 친구를 소개해서 그 두사람이 잘 되면
원래 소개해준 커플이 헤어진다는 징크스가 있다.
13)한국인은 '안녕하세요"하고 인사한 뒤, 자주 "밥 먹었니?'하고 물어본다.
14)한국인은 모두가 같이 식사하러 갔을 때, 먼저 남성 둘째 연장자순 셋째 돈 많은 사람 순으로 보통 식사요금을 혼자서 전부 지불해 준다.
15)한국에서는 남자친구가 군대 가는 것을 계기로 헤어지는 커플이 많다.
16)한국에서는 부모와 얘기할 때, 그 부모의 얘기를 할 때는 경어를 사용한다.
17)한국에서는 나이 많은 연장자에게 대들어서는 안된다.
18)한국에서는물건을 살 때 값을 깎거나 덤을 받는 등의 흥정이 가능하다.
19)한국에서는 "손가락 걸고 하는 약속"은 도장이나 싸인 이상의 효력이 있다.
20)한국에서는 남자 친구가 여자친구에게 매일 전화를 하는 것은 당연한 일이다.

崔真实弟弟在迷你小窝要求白某公开道歉。

14日，演员崔真实的弟弟崔真英说“绝对不能饶恕散布‘崔真实放高利贷’谣言的证券公司女职员白某”，并要求其公开道歉，随之，谴责白某的恶性留言络绎不绝，“网络人肉搜索”争议卷土重来。

当日，崔真英在自己的迷你小窝上发表了题为《冤屈的姐姐》的文章，说：“姐姐走之前最后一天跟我说‘听到你（白某）魔鬼般的声音，真是太恐惧太痛苦’……绝不是希望处罚她，只是想知道真相。希望白某在国民面前真心道歉，以免发生更严重的事。”

崔真英发表该文之后，在他的迷你小窝上出现了“白某杀了人，是她用双手杀了真实姐”、“全国国民都埋怨白某、都气愤无比，道歉算什么，应以死谢罪”等留言。而且网民还传上了白某的照片、大学的专业、学号、手机号码等。崔真英方面看恶性留言络绎不绝，当日下午2时就关闭了迷你小窝芳名录版块。

对那些恶性留言，名为金真善的网民在崔真英的迷你小窝上留言说，“看留言板净是骂白某的留言，我觉得骂不是问题，问题是这样一来会不会又把一个人整死。”

最近在接受时事周刊《时事IN》的采访时，针对白某网民们说“太恶毒了”、“真实姐不知受到了多大的伤害，绝对不能原谅”，从而令恶性留言更加扩散。

据悉，最近白某向自己上班的那家证券公司递交了辞呈，公司也于13日受理了辞职申请。该证券公司一位相关人士在接受媒体采访时说：“据我所知，白某的同事代替白某将辞呈递交给了公司，公司于13日受理了辞职申请。”

7日，白某在首尔瑞草警察局接受有关“高利贷谣言”相关调查后，换上提前备好的类似校服的衣服离开了警局。之后，她便向调查此案的警察发来短信，内容是“ 警官您辛苦了。平安脱身^^”。随着这一事实被媒体报导，网民们将白某的电话号码、照片、所学专业及学号等个人信息公布于互联网，相关恶意留言也开始络绎不绝，“网络人肉搜索”引发了争议。

崔真实堪称韩国的朱莉娅-罗伯茨和安吉丽娜-朱丽。

“韩国社会对著名演员崔真实的自杀负有一定责任。”就在美国的主流媒体争相报道崔真实去世的消息时，美国《时代周刊》不惜笔墨对崔真实之死进行了大规模的报道，引起了广泛的关注。

《时代周刊》网络版周二（韩国时间7日）通过题为《明星的自杀震惊全体韩国人》(South Koreans Are Shaken by a Celebrity Suicide）的报道，对把崔真实逼向绝路的韩国社会所存在的问题以及崔真实之死在韩国社会引起的震动进行了集中阐述。

《时代周刊》指出：“崔真实堪称韩国的朱莉娅-罗伯茨和安吉丽娜-朱丽，是备受全民喜爱的演员。崔真实的死让我们看到了，在极端保守却有着先进发达科学技术的韩国社会中，女性遭遇的困难到底是什么。”

就其理由，《时代周刊》还补充介绍说：“警方经调查后表明，崔真实的死因与已故演艺界好友安在焕的恶性传言有关。然而，实际上崔真实在韩国社会承受了巨大压力。在韩国社会，带着单身女性，尤其是离婚单身妈妈的‘头衔’，那就属于‘贱民阶层’(pariah status)。”

另外，该周刊还详细报道了崔真实与前夫赵成珉离婚后所经历的种种痛苦。《时代周刊》还援引相关人士的话报道说：“已有两个孩子的崔真实离婚后，电影及电视制作方都忌讳给她分量重的角色。其理由就是，崔真实是有两个孩子的离婚妈妈。”

此外，《时代周刊》也对韩国媒体进行了正面抨击。称崔真实自杀事件虽“点缀”了各大媒体的头版头条，却几乎没有一家媒体谈及作为一位离婚的单身妈妈生活在保守的韩国社会所承受的痛苦。崔真实在生前公开谈论了在韩国社会是一大忌的有关离婚妈妈的事情，也为了改变单身妈妈不受欢迎的韩国社会而做了努力。同时，还援引一位专家的话报道说，韩国社会不喜欢强势的女人，还普遍认为单身妈妈在性格上存在问题。

最后，《时代周刊》表示担忧地称：“崔真实的自杀事件很可能引发仿效自杀现象。过去5年里，在高度产业化的国家中，韩国的自杀率最高。”

不开心，很不开心！不知道要用怎样的文字来形容自己的感受！

此时的我，又一次，如此，深刻的体会到，生命的脆弱和苍白无力～

曾经，那样鲜活的一个面容，现在，却成为灰烬，永远的定格在人的记忆里！

为什么，对于现代的人来说，活着的压力是那样的不堪负荷呢，浅薄到，连死都是如此的轻而易举？哎～

真的很想哭......到现在，我都不敢相信，总是笑容满面的她，会选择这样的一个极端！我宁愿相信，这只是酒后的冲动，她没有那样的脆弱....

她是我认识的第一个韩国艺人，也是她，把我带进韩剧的世界里。我看的第一部剧就是她主演的《嫉妒》，尽管，当时还小，但是，她温柔亲切开朗的形象一直留在我的记忆里！到后来的《星梦》，无可替代的涟漪，也奠定了她在我心目中韩剧天后的形象！

她刻画的角色总是那么生动，近几年看她的剧真的不多，前两年的一部《玫瑰人生》，感受到了她不同的风格，那是经历人生后的一种蜕变！她的表演真实感人，收放自如。

前些日子，刚开始去留意你的《我人生中最后的绯闻》，还没来得及好好的欣赏，可惜，你就这样的离开了！让它成为你最后的一部作品.....多么的令人难以置信！

对韩国的电视电影，从激情到冷淡。对真实姐的感觉却一如既往--觉得她是一个很好的演员，很实力派，亲切随和，而且非常朴实！

她带给我那样多的感动，而此时，她却给了我无尽的震撼，惋惜，还有痛心！

每一个生命的终结，都会给我带来不一样的感触！或深或浅，或多或少！尤其，是那些在你生命里很重要的人，或者，那些在你的记忆里印象深刻的人！你不需要很贴近她（他）的生活，你也能同样，像亲人那样去感同身受的怀念和流泪~

迷惑和难过了许久，在写这段话的此刻，我已经能完全理解你的感受！人活着，有很多身不由己，言不由衷的东西束缚着！平常人尚是如此，何况是对于公众人物来说！人言可畏！虽然说，你不完全是因为这样的一个理由而离去，但不置可否的是，它会是其中一个相当重要的因素！

我能理解，一个单身女人带着两个儿女的不容易，要养家，要教育他们，还要抵挡扑面而来的工作压力！

但我不能理解的是，你解脱了，离开最疼爱他们的妈妈，孩子们能幸福吗？他们心里的伤痛，要很长很长的一段时间才可以平复！有些伤疤，甚至用上一辈子的时间，都愈合不了！

在给好朋友最后的短信中，你这样写道：“我很难受，好像快要死了。我最爱的妹妹，要是姐姐有什么万一，拜托你帮我好好照顾孩子们。”

你，只是冲动。你不可能，舍得！任何的母亲，都是同样的心情！可惜，没有人能及时发觉到你的冲动，及时的挽救，就这样的错失了！让爱你的人，悲痛欲绝.......我相信，如果，换一个结局，你一定非常后悔自己当天的冲动.......

现在，说什么都没有用了！任何的惋惜和假设，都代表不了什么.......

진실언니 잘 가세요~

听你的朋友讲，你最喜欢的一句话，就是사랑해요，此刻，这是我最想要给你的祝福--사랑해요，언니。

我相信，真的会有天堂的存在。那里是一个很温馨的世界，没有暴力，没有流言蜚语，有你需要的爱和温暖，你会幸福的。

真的好怀念，你曾经的微笑！

一路走好，永远的涟漪！

永远的崔真实！

今天，回顾了一下<星梦》的片段，很短暂的镜头，却给了我很深的感慨！

写完这段话的时候，我已是泪流满面.......

说不出悲伤，很重，很重......

希望，我的祝福，在天堂的언니能感受得到.......

    他这个月的业绩不是很令人满意。

2、Performance Evaluation 定期的员工个人评定

    The performance evaluation test is a way of seeing how efficient a workers performance is.
    定期的员工个人评定是一种考察员工的工作有多高效的手段。

3、Challenge (v.) 在外企的英文中它不当“挑战”讲而是“谴责、批评、指责”

    His poor performance gave rise to the challenge from his boss.

    他差劲的表现遭到了老板的批评。

4、Presentation (n.) 做介绍（一般指打投影仪的那种汇报）

His presentation on the Earth Summit proves that we really need to pay more attention to the global environment。

    他在地球峰会上的报告证实了我们的确要更加关注全球的环境。

5、Quota (n.) 员工的（一年或半年的）任务量
Have you reached your predicted quota for this quarter?

你达到了本季度预期的任务量了吗？

6、Solid (n.) 可靠的、稳妥的

Their partnership is solid as a rock.

他们的伙伴关系像岩石一样坚不可摧。

7、Complicated (adj.) 复杂的

English grammar is very complicated.

英语语法非常复杂。

8/9、Vacation = Leave 休假 (n.)

It is my vacation soon, I think I'll go to Huang Shan to relax.
我马上就要休假了。我想我会去黄山放松一下。

10、Follow up把某件事情继续负责追究到底。

Have you been following up on the news recently?

你有跟踪调查最近的新闻吗？

刚好是下午,太阳特别大,气温也很高!把人"烤"得不行了^.*~

来这里才真正感受到,奥运气氛的浓厚!尽管阳光"恶劣",但是依旧是人山人海....

有鲜花簇拥的"同一个世界,同一个梦想"~

One World,One Dream~

商务部~

公安部~

鲜花的海洋~

再来一张~

天安门~

再来一张~

还有~

昨天,最爆炸的消息莫过于刘翔的临阵退赛了.从那一刻起,网络上铺天漫地的都是惋惜,惊讶,难过!评论成千上万!

首先,要感谢.那位抢跑的运动员.如果,没有他,我想,刘翔很难做出如此艰难的一个抉择!

选择放弃比坚持到底要困难得多！我相信，那一刻，他的难过已经上升到极限！

今天，翻阅了不少的报道，才知道，平时大大咧咧，微笑满面的飞人，做完人生中最艰难的决定后，掩面痛哭.....

看到网络上一些人的评论,忍不住的汗颜:

^国家是让你来参加奥运会的，而不是让你退出奥运会的！^

^你哪怕是走到终点！我们一样会鼓掌啊！^

^你太让人失望了,对不起全国人民^

诸如此类......

原来,站着说话不腰疼的人有的是!拿了冠军就对得起你,不参加比赛就亏欠了你?你以为你是谁啊?!背负了这么严重的伤还要他坚持跨过去,跨不过去就要求他走,走不动爬都得爬过去.这是什么逻辑?

昨天,从11:00开始,一直趴在电视机面前等待刘翔的出场!说实话,我挺支持他的!觉得,对于这样一个中国的弱势项目来说，能拿到金牌,是相当不容易的事情,可是刘翔做到了!110米栏金牌的分量,对中国来说,绝对超越了无数的项目!

而且,刘翔给国人的印象一直非常好,阳光健康,说话得体....所以,他才能得到那样多的人的期待祝福和支持!

1356,刘翔后背上的号码!不知道这是巧合还是故意!背负13亿人,56个民族的期待!这个担子,很重很重!

凭什么就非得让刘翔拿金牌?有人甚至还挖苦说，孙海平教练的哭显得太虚伪了!某卫视的一嘉宾还做了一个不恰当的假设,眼外之意,刘翔有为了逃避比赛压力自残的嫌疑.....

鄙视这些无聊的论断，不是因为我也支持刘翔才鄙视你们！我是发自内心的接受不了！

一个运动员一生中经历的比赛无数，经受的压力无数！四年的等待，就这么的心甘情愿的浪费？？我深信，这不是刘翔的做法！而且，他的伤那么明显的体现出来了，为什么不愿意用真诚去相信呢？

平时的出场，都是带着轻松，笑容满面，对谁都友好的挥手！而这一次，眼神苍白，很无力...从来没有见到他如此痛苦过！

有的人于是说，有伤赛不了就应该提前告诉大家，提前退出啊？比赛都开始，再怎么样，跟做秀一样！你们不是总是倡导“运动员应该坚持，有伤也义无返顾吗？”

正因为刘翔很重视这块金牌，很热爱自己的项目，所以，他善意的隐瞒了。他想坚持，他也起跑了！他跑了，可是，伤，让他无法坚持到底....他，没有错！也没有对不起任何人！

他的教练，跟着他一起训练，看着他起起落落，那份理解与共鸣，是旁人感觉不出来的。雅典奥运会的起点太高了，说到压力，他肯定超越任何的运动员！

我很喜欢的一名足球评论员董路，居然也说：刘翔应该走完110米，不应该放弃！

很失望！

走完能代表什么呢？有什么意义呢？那比作秀还作秀！换位的思考一下，如果你是刘翔，你会怎么做呢？捱下去，坚持走完？这不是跑步，这是跨栏啊！！！

退出奥运会不是世界末日。还有很多的比赛，很多的机会，等待着他！就如他自己说的，他一定不会放弃！2012年的伦敦，他会再次的创造惊喜！

刘翔,加油!

Today I shed my old skin which hath, too long, suffered the bruises of failure and the wounds of mediority.

Today I am born anew and my birthplace is a vineyard where there is fruit for all.

Today I will pluck grapes of wisdom from the tallest and fullest vines in the vineyard,for these were planted by the wisest of my profession who have come before me,generation upon generation.

Today I will savor the taste of grapes from these vines and verily I will swallow the seed of success buried in each and new life will sprout within me.

The career I have chosen is laden with opportunity yet it is fraught with heartbreak and despair and the bodies of those who have failed, were they piled one atop another, would cast a shadow down upon all the pyramids of the earth.

Yet I will not fail, as the others, for in my hands I now hold the charts which will guide through perilous waters to shores which only yesterday seemed but a dream.

Failure no longer will be my payment for struggle. Just as nature made no provision for my body to tolerate pain neither has it made any provision for my life to suffer failure. Failure, like pain, is alien to my life. In the past I accepted it as I accepted pain. Now I reject it and I am prepared for wisdom and principles which will guide me out of the shadows into the sunlight of wealth, position, and happiness far beyond my most extravagant dreams until even the golden apples in the Garden of Hesperides will seem no more than my just reward.

Time teaches all things to him who lives forever but I have not the luxury of eternity. Yet within my allotted time I must practice the art of patience for nature acts never in haste. To create the olive, king of all trees, a hundred years is required. An onion plant is old in nine weeks. I have lived as an onion plant. It has not pleased me. Now I wouldst become the greatest of olive trees and, in truth, the greatest of salesman.

And how will this be accomplished? For I have neither the knowledge nor the experience to achieve the greatness and already I have stumbled in ignorance and fallen into pools of self-pity. The answer is simple. I will commence my journey unencumbered with either the weight of unnecessary knowledge or the handicap of meaningless experience. Nature already has supplied me with knowledge and instinct far greater than any beast in the forest and the value of experience is overrated, usually by old men who nod wisely and speak stupidly.

In truth, experience teaches thoroughly yet her course of instruction devours men's years so the value of her lessons diminishes with the time necessary to acquire her special wisdom. The end finds it wasted on dead men. Furthermore, experience is comparable to fashion; an action that proved successful today will be unworkable and impractical tomorrow.

Only principles endure and these I now possess, for the laws that will lead me to greatness are contained in the words of these scrolls. What they will teach me is more to prevent failure than to gain success, for what is success other than a state of mind? Which two, among a thouand wise men, will define success in the same words; yet failure is always described but one way. Failure is man's inability to reach his goals in life, whatever they may be.

In truth, the only difference between those who have failed and those who have successed lies in the difference of their habits. Good habits are the key to all success. Bad habits are the unlocked door to failure. Thus, the first law I will obey, which precedeth all others is --I will form good habits and become their slave.

As a child I was slave to my impulses; now I am slave to my habits, as are all grown men. I have surrendered my free will to the years of accumulated habits and the past deeds of my life have already marked out a path which threatens to imprison my future. My actions are ruled by appetite, passion, prejudice, greed, love, fear, environment, habit, and the worst of these tyrants is habit. Therefore, if I must be a slave to habit let me be a slave to good habits. My bad habits must be destroyed and new furrows prepared for good seed.

I will form good habits and become their slave.

And how will I accomplish this difficult feat? Through these scrolls, it will be done, for each scroll contains a principle which will drive a bad habit from my life and replace it with one which will bring me closer to success. For it is another of nature's laws that only a habit can subdue another habit. So, in order for these written words to perform their chosen task, I must discipline myself with the first of my new habits which is as follows:

I will read each scroll for thirty days in this prescribed manner, before I proceed to the next scroll.

First, I will read the words in silence when I arise. Then, I will read the words in silence after I have partaken of my midday meal. Last, I will read the words again just before I retire at day's end, and most important, on this occasion I will read the words aloud.

On the next day I will repeat this procedure, and I will continue in like manner for thirty days. Then, I will turn to the next scroll and repeat this procedure for another thirty days. I will continue in this manner until I have lived with each scroll for thirty days and my reading has become habit.

And what will be accomplished with this habit? Herein lies the hidden secret of all man's accomplishments. As I repeat the words daily they will soon become a part of my active mind, but more important, they will also seep into my other mind, that mysterious source which never sleeps, which creates my dreams, and often makes me act in ways I do not comprehend.

As the words of these scrolls are consumed by my mysterious mind I will begin to awake, each morning, with a vitality I have never known before. My vigor will increase, my enthusiasm will rise, my desire to meet the world will overcome every fear I once knew at sunrise, and I will be happier than I ever believed it possible to be in this world of strife and sorrow.

Eventually I will find myself reacting to all situations which confront me as I was commanded in the scrolls to react, and soon these actions and reactions will become easy to perform, for any act with practice becomes easy.

Thus a new and good habit is born, for when an act becomes easy through constant repetiton it becomes a pleasure to perform and if it is a pleasure to perform it is man's nature to perform it often. When I perform it often it becomes a habit and I become its slave and since it is a good habit this is my will.

Today I begin a new life.

And I make a solemn oath to myself that nothing will retard my new life's growth. I will lose not a day from these readings for that day cannot be retrieved nor can I substitute another for it. I must not , I will not, break this habit of daily reading from these scrolls and, in truth, the few moments spent each day on this new habit are but a small price to pay for the happiness and success that will be mine.

As I read and re-read the words in the scrolls to follow, never will I allow the brevity of each scroll nor the simplicity of its words to cause me to treat the scroll's message lightly. Thousands of grapes are pressed to fill one jar with wine, and the grapeskin and pulp are tossed to the birds. So it is with these grapes of wisdom from the ages. Much has been filtered and tossed to the wind.Only the pure truth lies distilled in the words to come. I will drink as instructed and spill not a drop. And the seed of success I will swallow.

Today my old skin has become as dust. I will walk tall among men and they will know me not , for today I am a new man, with a new life.

Today I shed my old skin which hath, too long, suffered the bruises of failure and the wounds of mediority.

Today I am born anew and my birthplace is a vineyard where there is fruit for all.

Today I will pluck grapes of wisdom from the tallest and fullest vines in the vineyard,for these were planted by the wisest of my profession who have come before me,generation upon generation.

Today I will savor the taste of grapes from these vines and verily I will swallow the seed of success buried in each and new life will sprout within me.

The career I have chosen is laden with opportunity yet it is fraught with heartbreak and despair and the bodies of those who have failed, were they piled one atop another, would cast a shadow down upon all the pyramids of the earth.

Yet I will not fail, as the others, for in my hands I now hold the charts which will guide through perilous waters to shores which only yesterday seemed but a dream.

Failure no longer will be my payment for struggle. Just as nature made no provision for my body to tolerate pain neither has it made any provision for my life to suffer failure. Failure, like pain, is alien to my life. In the past I accepted it as I accepted pain. Now I reject it and I am prepared for wisdom and principles which will guide me out of the shadows into the sunlight of wealth, position, and happiness far beyond my most extravagant dreams until even the golden apples in the Garden of Hesperides will seem no more than my just reward.

Time teaches all things to him who lives forever but I have not the luxury of eternity. Yet within my allotted time I must practice the art of patience for nature acts never in haste. To create the olive, king of all trees, a hundred years is required. An onion plant is old in nine weeks. I have lived as an onion plant. It has not pleased me. Now I wouldst become the greatest of olive trees and, in truth, the greatest of salesman.

And how will this be accomplished? For I have neither the knowledge nor the experience to achieve the greatness and already I have stumbled in ignorance and fallen into pools of self-pity. The answer is simple. I will commence my journey unencumbered with either the weight of unnecessary knowledge or the handicap of meaningless experience. Nature already has supplied me with knowledge and instinct far greater than any beast in the forest and the value of experience is overrated, usually by old men who nod wisely and speak stupidly.

In truth, experience teaches thoroughly yet her course of instruction devours men's years so the value of her lessons diminishes with the time necessary to acquire her special wisdom. The end finds it wasted on dead men. Furthermore, experience is comparable to fashion; an action that proved successful today will be unworkable and impractical tomorrow.

Only principles endure and these I now possess, for the laws that will lead me to greatness are contained in the words of these scrolls. What they will teach me is more to prevent failure than to gain success, for what is success other than a state of mind? Which two, among a thouand wise men, will define success in the same words; yet failure is always described but one way. Failure is man's inability to reach his goals in life, whatever they may be.

In truth, the only difference between those who have failed and those who have successed lies in the difference of their habits. Good habits are the key to all success. Bad habits are the unlocked door to failure. Thus, the first law I will obey, which precedeth all others is --I will form good habits and become their slave.

As a child I was slave to my impulses; now I am slave to my habits, as are all grown men. I have surrendered my free will to the years of accumulated habits and the past deeds of my life have already marked out a path which threatens to imprison my future. My actions are ruled by appetite, passion, prejudice, greed, love, fear, environment, habit, and the worst of these tyrants is habit. Therefore, if I must be a slave to habit let me be a slave to good habits. My bad habits must be destroyed and new furrows prepared for good seed.

I will form good habits and become their slave.

And how will I accomplish this difficult feat? Through these scrolls, it will be done, for each scroll contains a principle which will drive a bad habit from my life and replace it with one which will bring me closer to success. For it is another of nature's laws that only a habit can subdue another habit. So, in order for these written words to perform their chosen task, I must discipline myself with the first of my new habits which is as follows:

I will read each scroll for thirty days in this prescribed manner, before I proceed to the next scroll.

First, I will read the words in silence when I arise. Then, I will read the words in silence after I have partaken of my midday meal. Last, I will read the words again just before I retire at day's end, and most important, on this occasion I will read the words aloud.

On the next day I will repeat this procedure, and I will continue in like manner for thirty days. Then, I will turn to the next scroll and repeat this procedure for another thirty days. I will continue in this manner until I have lived with each scroll for thirty days and my reading has become habit.

And what will be accomplished with this habit? Herein lies the hidden secret of all man's accomplishments. As I repeat the words daily they will soon become a part of my active mind, but more important, they will also seep into my other mind, that mysterious source which never sleeps, which creates my dreams, and often makes me act in ways I do not comprehend.

As the words of these scrolls are consumed by my mysterious mind I will begin to awake, each morning, with a vitality I have never known before. My vigor will increase, my enthusiasm will rise, my desire to meet the world will overcome every fear I once knew at sunrise, and I will be happier than I ever believed it possible to be in this world of strife and sorrow.

Eventually I will find myself reacting to all situations which confront me as I was commanded in the scrolls to react, and soon these actions and reactions will become easy to perform, for any act with practice becomes easy.

Thus a new and good habit is born, for when an act becomes easy through constant repetiton it becomes a pleasure to perform and if it is a pleasure to perform it is man's nature to perform it often. When I perform it often it becomes a habit and I become its slave and since it is a good habit this is my will.

Today I begin a new life.

And I make a solemn oath to myself that nothing will retard my new life's growth. I will lose not a day from these readings for that day cannot be retrieved nor can I substitute another for it. I must not , I will not, break this habit of daily reading from these scrolls and, in truth, the few moments spent each day on this new habit are but a small price to pay for the happiness and success that will be mine.

As I read and re-read the words in the scrolls to follow, never will I allow the brevity of each scroll nor the simplicity of its words to cause me to treat the scroll's message lightly. Thousands of grapes are pressed to fill one jar with wine, and the grapeskin and pulp are tossed to the birds. So it is with these grapes of wisdom from the ages. Much has been filtered and tossed to the wind.Only the pure truth lies distilled in the words to come. I will drink as instructed and spill not a drop. And the seed of success I will swallow.

Today my old skin has become as dust. I will walk tall among men and they will know me not , for today I am a new man, with a new life.

边看边有感动,最大的感慨就是:中国人,确实了不起!!!

冉冉升起的五环~

焰火闪耀整个鸟巢~

天后莎拉-布莱曼与刘欢演唱主题曲~

最重的任务,当然交给最有分量的人物啦!~

It's begining~

搜索了一下,原来,她就是香港游泳队的陈宇宁~

觉得她穿正式装很美,有做OL的潜资哦^.^~

其实，我还是很喜欢看美女的，非常的赏心悦目~

希望，她令人惊眼的不是外貌，而是成绩~

我一直就非常的支持香港的！加油~

陈宇宁个人资料：

姓名：陈宇宁 Chan Yuning (中国香港) 
地区：中国香港 性别：女 
生日：1988.3.15 
身高：176cm 
体重：64kg 项目：游泳 港大经济及金融系学生

陈宇宁女子自由泳50米预赛时间：08月15日18:30

之前比赛后的照片！看起来比较小哦~

为追梦回流H.K.U---
　　
年轻人为梦想可以变得很奢侈，陈宇宁为了再次实现奥运梦，毅然放弃美国俄亥俄州立大学学位、每年超过三十万奖学金和完善的训练设施，这样的牺牲只是想争取一个机会奔向北京！
　　
放弃三十万奖学金---
　　
○五年于协恩中学毕业后，Elaine便负笈美国俄亥俄州立大学。她说：「那边的大学对运动员非常支持，除会为我安排教授单对单帮我『恶补』学业外，还因我获选为校内最佳泳员而得到每年三十万奖学金。纵然在美国读书样样都好，不过我仍然想回港一试能否再去奥运，所以选择回流。」
　　
现时陈宇宁在港大修读商业及经济系，而港大亦破格为Elaine提供可观的奖学金。陈宇宁现时可谓学业、运动两得意，她表示要感谢恩师陈剑虹：「因为当年是他极力支持我去美国开眼界，才会有今日的我。」

二○○八年二月十九日星期二当模特儿和当奥运选手之间作抉择，相信一般少女会选前者，但香港飞鱼陈宇寧，却抛弃模特儿之路，為了参与奥运，她寧愿踏上艰辛且刻苦的运动员生涯，在游泳场上燃烧青春，即使夺得奥运奖牌机会渺茫，她仍奋勇向前，不过，她从未把游泳视為职业，只视為课外活动，準备在毕业投入社会后，课外活动当然也会随之结束。

陈宇寧成為一名奥运泳手，是机缘巧合的安排。她自五、六岁开始就学游泳，不过她学游泳全是因她妈妈的要求。「那时学游泳，是因為妈妈要我去学，因為妈妈觉得游水是一种求生本能，一定要识。」

泳赛认识啟蒙教练 :
她当时并未发觉自己对游泳有特别浓厚的兴趣，只是与一般的小朋友一般在池中「踢水」，陈宇寧直言，当时的泳术「唔见得人」。及至小学四年级，她参加了一个东区校际游泳比赛后，在学校安排的游泳班中，认识了她第一位的啟蒙教练———庞教练。

「自从认识了庞教练之后，便开始跟她飘泊流离的生活，因為庞教练周围教水，所以我都跟周围去练水。」陈宇寧说。庞教练看中了陈宇寧的身形好，很具成為一个优秀泳手的潜质，故鼓励她习泳，加上陈宇寧本身是一个好动的人，随庞习泳后，其成绩突飞猛进，令她从中得到了成功感，开展了习泳之路。

陈宇寧的潜质，在一次比赛中被港队教练陈剑虹相中，透过庞教练邀请她入港队，开始了代表香港的光荣岁月。

获模特儿公司发掘 :
不过，身高一米七六的陈宇寧，除了身形适合游泳外，高挑瘦削的身材也是模特儿的好人选。在○二年，陈宇寧被一家模特儿公司相中，希望签她做模特儿，但条件是不能再练水。不过就在同一时间，港队教练陈剑虹告诉她，她很有希望参加○四年雅典奥运。

「身光颈靚」的模特儿与需刻苦训练的泳手相比，相信有不少的少女，会选择前者，但陈宇寧却选择后者。「模特儿好多人都可以做，但就不是人人都可以去到奥运，而且妈妈都同我讲做模特儿对前途无帮助。」起初，陈宇寧对游泳并没有任何的目标，直至明确认定要参加○四年雅典奥运。

目标清晰的陈宇寧，在○三年的香港长池分龄游泳锦标赛平地一声雷，以二十六秒二一秒刷新五十米自由泳的香港纪录，夺得雅典奥运参赛资格，一炮而红。不过，在她破纪录的同时，却惹来不少閒言閒语。「当时会有人质疑我，话呢个女仔进步得快，是不是食药？」陈宇寧回忆道。

加上当时陈宇寧正唸中四，要為会考衝刺，学校担心陈宇寧分心练水，而忽略学业，也给她不少压力。突然间，陈宇寧承受了很大的心理压力，游泳的成绩也一落千丈。在雅典奥运会上，也只游出二十七秒八四，造出的时间比她○三年的纪录慢一秒二七。陈宇寧将该段时间形容為低潮期，她更一度想放弃游水，专心读书。「但考完会考后，一早报了几个比赛，教练同我讲，这是对自己，同对香港的责任，加上妈妈的鼓励下，就继续游。」及后，○五年她更凭出色的游泳表现，获得全额的奖学金，到美国俄亥俄州立大学升学。

大学毕业放弃比赛 :
虽然人在美国，但陈宇寧也继续练水。直到去年，為了能够争取到奥运的入场券，她毅然回港，并在港大就读。她的一番苦心并未有白费，去年八月的香港游泳公开赛中，陈宇寧在五十米自由泳，游出二十六秒二八，不但成功达标，而且是至今在这项目最快的泳手，只要在今年四月的香港奥运计时赛中，无人超越她的成绩，她就可以第二次参加奥运会。

陈宇寧说。纵然她如此有天份，但陈宇寧从无视泳手為职业，她一直只游水视為课餘活动。她更说，在她明年大学毕业之后，便会投身社会工作，不会再比赛。

一开始，她并不是我所喜欢的那类演员，或者说，不是我所欣赏的那种女人！

因为之前的一些影象，会显得稍微的＂妖艳＂一点！

相比以前，现在的阿姐，任何的时候，都是那样的素雅，更淡定舒服！

每个地方，都会有一些代表那个地方的专属的东西！

要是说到新加坡电视圈，阿姐郑惠玉肯定是必须要被提到的重要人物！

她具有非常强的可塑性，所以，这么多年的历练，才能够成绝对的传奇！

录制<辣妈好时尚>,和王渌江~

无论是电视或电影里，总会有一些荧幕情侣非常令人难忘！像ZOE姐与沈金兴就是其中的一对！这是10多年后两人的再度合作，相当的难得！有种洗尽铅华的感觉～

★阿ZOE的星路历程★ 
郑惠玉是1988年度新加坡“才华横溢出新秀”的冠军得主。在参赛前就已是当红模特儿的她以自然的演技，大方得体的应变能力，和姣美的样貌获得评判们的垂青，夺得了第一届才华比赛的冠军宝座，也开始了她璀璨的演艺生涯。 

1990年，她成为“丽士香身沐浴露”的广告代言人，打断了这产品只用国际巨星如苏菲亚罗兰，陈冲等人的局面。 
至今，这位在无数电视剧中担任女主角的顶尖女艺人，更成为了新加坡演艺界最具代表性的人物。 

1991年，她在《三面夏娃》中饰演复仇心重的拜金女BoBo，是她演艺生涯的转捩点，突破性的精湛演技奠定了她在观众心目中的地位，而BoBo更成为新加坡电视史上最经典的人物之一。 
另外，在三个系列的《双天至尊》中，惠玉成功创造柔中带刚的赌后洛其芳的角色。她与新传媒一哥李南星默契十足，是观众影迷和各地网友心目中，最登对的荧幕情侣。 

1994年新视机构首次举办“红星大奖”，一个由电视观众投票选出十位最受欢迎电视艺人的比赛，惠玉不负众望，轻而易举地夺得“最受欢迎女艺人”奖，更在95 、96年再度蝉联，证明了她的魅力不可挡。 
1995年，她所主演的电视电影“甜甜屋”高踞榜首，是那年收视率最高的电视电影。 

她在1995年推出个人写真集《惠玉》，成为首位推出摄影集的新加坡女艺人，而《惠玉》也是至今新加坡最畅销的艺人写真集。翌年，她推出个人EP《十分…郑惠玉》，展现歌唱才华。 

在1996年度的新视红星大奖，惠玉再度获得五大最受欢迎女艺人，并凭《金枕头》中突出的表现获颁1996年“红星大奖”最佳女主角奖，再次证明惠玉的实力。 

惠玉在1996年拍摄《双天至尊II》，这也是新视96年最高收视率的电视剧。除此之外，惠玉还与李宗盛合唱这部电视剧的主题曲。 

1997年我们在《长河》里第一次看到惠玉和第五波道的演员一同演戏。 

1998年，新视大制作之一《卫斯理传奇》，惠玉把原著霸道武功高强的白素时髦化，现代化以让观众更能接受这个角色。 

新视为惠玉庆祝演艺事业十周年，答谢观众对惠玉的支持，在98年十月底出版《十年郑惠玉》激光影碟，收录惠玉的两首音乐电视MTV《感谢》和《用一生演出》。 

2000年惠玉凭《家事》获“亚洲电视大奖”最佳女主角的提名。 

2001年，她和吴镇宇、谢君豪演出电影《孩子树》，与两位香港影帝演出对手戏，她的表现毫不逊色，自然具感染力的演绎，感人至深。 

2002年，惠玉破天荒在环境剧《加东Miss Oh》中，演出喜剧人物。自成一格的喜感，让她入围了《红星大奖》最佳喜剧演员。 

乐善好施的惠玉也是红十字会及世界宣明会的大使，多年来马不停蹄，先后到访柬埔寨、蒙古、非洲莱索托、马来西亚等地展开“爱心之旅”，以她的真诚爱心、实际行动回馈社会。 

2004年，惠玉已连续十年获得红星大奖十大最受欢迎艺人，因此在当年获颁红星大奖“超级红星奖”。  
 
2005年，在由新加坡《联合早报》副刊《现在》主办的第四届“亚洲人气偶像50强”投选中，惠玉在新加坡本地艺人中排名第一，显示了她超凡的魅力。

                        ---作者: 朝鲜日报评论员 杨相勋    来源: 朝鲜日报 以及新网 特别感谢!

 日前,擅自播出北京奥运会开幕式样彩排片段的韩国电视台SBS昨天正式向北京奥组委道歉!

    SBS北京奥运会报道的总协调人金庆秀31日在接受记者采访时表示，韩国联合转播体和他们的代表已经正式向北京奥组委表示道歉，同时采取了积极措施，撤掉了上传到网络的有关影像资料。

　　韩国联合转播体的领队、韩国另一家电视台KBS的总协调人金显哲则表示，SBS的行为是不正当的，应该受到处罚。

　　金显哲说：“虽然这个事端不是KBS惹出来的，但我们对韩国转播联合体成员的不当行为感到羞耻。SBS已经接到来自北京奥组委的抗议，我们内部也正在商讨针对他们的惩罚措施。”

　　国际奥委会新闻委员会主席高斯帕在得知开幕式彩排被泄露后也十分震惊。他表示，开幕式彩排尽管允许转播商携带器材进行测试，但奥运会的惯例和转播商之间的默契从来都是不得提前泄露开幕式的内容，SBS的行为在奥运历史上是第一次出现，他们不但破坏了默契，也“夺走”了人们期待惊喜的乐趣。他说：“我们都希望到开幕式举行当天的时候，大家对于开幕式的内容充满期待。即使是所有参加开幕式的志愿者都被要求保守秘密，不得公开泄露。韩国人也许以为这对他们来说是一件好事，但对于北京奥组委和奥林匹克运动来说，这都是错误的。”

　　至于是否会对SBS做出制裁，国际奥委会相关人士表示，转播商们可能会对此进行讨论。

　　北京奥组委新闻官员孙伟德当天在北京奥运会主新闻中心举行的一个新闻发布会上就此事表达了北京奥组委的态度。

　　孙伟德表示：“我们也看到了有关报道，对你刚才所说的韩国电视台播出有关奥运会开幕式的片段感到失望。显然，光靠这些片段无法展示开幕式的盛况和全貌。希望大家等到8月8日和我们共同欣赏精彩的奥运会开幕式盛况。”

　　本周早些时候，SBS在电视节目中播出了一段长度约2分钟的开幕式彩排片段，这段影像很快就在互联网上流传开来。SBS这一违反新闻从业道德操守的行为受到了各界的谴责。 

好几天不曾写点什么,看着网络上无聊的事情一件接着一件!不免觉得乏味!
这不,因为阿娇的新书的书名,大家又开始翻天覆地的批判!

有时候会很疑惑,难道原谅和宽容别人的错误或过失真的有那么难吗?况且,还是一个跟你的生活完全划不上边的人呢?

我不是Twins或阿Gill的粉丝,甚至,我也曾经因为艳照门事件冷漠过,不齿过.

始终记得阿较第一次的公开道歉,那是此次丑闻唯一也是第一个公开道歉的女主角.虽然,当时那句”很傻很天真”显得那么的有趣空洞,但是,我为她的勇气还有坚强感动!尤其,她的眼里没有泪水,她并没有以受害人的身份来获取大家的同情,而是以积极的态度承认了自己的错误,她很真实,为自己的行为做了诚实的交代,她,应该获得一定的谅解,不是吗?

如果，她什么也不说,什么交代也不给,一味的逃避,大家会怎么想!?

娱乐圈,本来就是一个大染缸,那些依靠丑闻,裸体,不正当交易等上位的明星比比皆是.我们身边,也有这样的人,为了钱,任何东西都可以出卖!社会,是一个更大更大的染缸!

阿娇有错,这样的丑闻被暴光,难道,不是对她个人隐私的严重侵犯吗?

她有错,最大的错，就是爱上一个不该爱的男人,一个无聊的低级趣味的男人!这个男人,近乎变态!这个变态的男人,才更应该被千夫所指!对一个弱小的女人,我们,真不应该这样没完没了的打击.

她已经失去了原来的风光,不论是形象,还是工作.她几乎全都丢失!

谁没有做错事的时候啊?!给她一点理解和宽容吧!