小差

《不要在不断的优秀里走向平庸》—— William Deresiewicz

作者简介：
　　William Deresiewicz is a contributing writer for The Nation and a contributing editor at The New Republic. His next book, A Jane Austen Education, will be published next year by Penguin Press.
　　威廉·德莱塞维茨（William Deresiewicz）是《国家》杂志撰稿人和《新共和》杂志编辑。他的新书《简•奥斯汀教育》明年将由企鹅出版社出版。”
     本文是威廉•德莱塞维茨（William Deresiewicz）在斯坦福大学的演讲，标题也叫：勇气挣脱身上的网。

1、正确的思考

已惯天涯莫浪愁，

寒云衰草渐成秋。

漫因睡起又登楼。

伴我萧萧惟代马，

笑人寂寂有牵牛。

劳人合作一生休。

    --《浣溪沙》

欲问江梅瘦几分，

只看愁损翠罗裙。

麝篝衾冷惜余熏。

可耐暮寒长倚竹，

便教春色不开门。

枇杷花底校书人。

    --《浣溪沙》

bad day

当你心情不好的时候听听这首歌

今天听了7遍

下周7天都是好心情

Most people learn over time, but often learning comes too late to be fully useful. There are certainly many things that I know now that would have been extremely useful to me earlier in my life; things that could have saved me from many of the mistakes and hurts I suffered over the years—and most of those that I inflicted on others too.

I don’t buy the romantic notion that my life has been somehow richer or more interesting because of all the times I screwed up; nor that the mistakes were “put” there to help me learn. I made them myself—through ignorance, fear, and a dumb wish to have everyone like me—and life and work would have been less stressful and more enjoyable (and certainly more successful) without them. So here are some of the things I wish I had learned long ago. I hope they may help a few of you avoid the mistakes that I made back then.

1. Most of it doesn’t matter.So much of what I got excited about, anxious about, or wasted my time and energy on, t

要记录的有很多，可是写出来的文字常常抓不住想要表达的。

所以忘记就成了习惯，久而久之。

路上的影子总会保持一长一短，消失又出现。

马的石像依然矗立在那，朝着夕阳又迈了一步。

无病呻吟的人少了，装B的人多了。

同情心依然还是一比一。

可恶的还是太阳，总让人躲着它。

电梯上的漂亮的女生多了，感觉却少了。

馒头大汉不是热的，坐车坐出来的。

警醒的看着门的另一边，我的卡不能给你。

blue，blue，blue

逃不出这种调调

这是一种慢性病。

1。一个人总要走陌生的路，看陌生的风景，听陌生的歌，然后在某个不经意的瞬间，你会发现，原本是费尽心机想要忘记的事情真的就那么忘记了。

1.One is always on a strange road, watching strange scenery and listening to strange music. Then one day, you will find that the things you try hard to forget are already gone. 　　

2。幸福，不是长生不老，不是大鱼大肉，不是权倾朝野。幸福是每一个微小的生活愿望达成。当你想吃的时候有得吃，想被爱的时候有人来爱你。

2.Happiness is not about being immortal nor having food or rights in one's hand. It’s about having each tiny wish come true, or having something to eat when you are hungry or having someone's love when you need love. 　　

3。爱情是灯，友情是影子，当灯灭了，你会发现你的周围都是影子。朋友，是在最后可以给你力量的人。

3.Love is a lamp, while friendship is the shadow. When the lamp is off,you will find the shadow everywhere. Friend is who can giv

落入凡间的音符

你可以雕塑它

小的、大的

它的触感柔滑、干燥

有时温暖

它的味道像刚落下的树叶

它的声音

当黑暗被侵蚀

当天旋地转时

就会出现

我可以不再追寻

一股和谐的沉静

我的皮肤打颤

皮肤干燥

我让风带着我

那声音

我让心浸润每个音符

我离开人世看到星星

感受到真善美的气息

我不必为了爱而开口

不必为了感受而追寻

不必有光就能看到

我静静离开我的梦

不再追寻

不再听