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先说说生意。 最近半年来, 生意跌到了谷底的冰窟窿里面了。新的目标客户面对我的报价爱理不理, 老客户下定单的频率也越来越低, 而且每次定单都严重缩水。 使得我渐渐心灰意冷, 进而对这盘生意不报什么希望了。没有希望, 人就变得懒惰, 对那些老油条的客户根本不报价, 数量少的也不理睬。 恶性循环, 终于, 我有点做不动的感觉。 我开始对这生意厌倦。
人生说长不长, 说短不短。而且每几年就是一个轮回。 每一轮回你就要重新找个出路, 周而复始。四年前我就这么迷茫过,今天我再次迷茫。
生活上, 衣食无忧,偶尔洗衣洗碗。 日子过得很舒心。但心里空虚得很。 考驾照的钱已经交了半年多了, 还没有正式摸过方向盘, 总是找各种理由说服自己使得自己一拖再拖。 成天想蜷缩在小屋子里, 不想出去见阳光, 不想出去跟人寒暄,我觉得自己变得很恐怖了,到底是什么又是什么时候我开始变成这样的。 是抑郁症。
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2009-9-23
翻了一页,
学到了: 不要平白无故地接受不了解的人的赠予, 天下没有免费的午餐, 也许她或者他不是要从你身上得到什么,
但是她或者他是想从自己的这个动作上获得别人的赞赏. 也许你曾经傻傻地接受过, 但是你却一直后悔着, 因为你渐渐地发现,
那一幕只是一场秀, 而你却是一个被利用的配角.
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时隔两个多月, 我再次回到了这里.
以前听人说, 很多人开通了博客只不过是为了能跟别人说, '去我的博客看看'. 因为他们觉得开了博客就是紧跟潮流了.
因为当初开通博客的那份新鲜感, 所以我也常常跟好朋友们提起我的博客. 渐渐,
我发现我的博客只是为我自己罢了,
发现越来越多的人喜欢装第二个字母了.我生来就是爱憎分明,疾恶如仇的. 忒讨厌那些为了某些自身利益的人弄虚作假, 装模做样.
大家都是明白人, 智商都不低, 某某某是什么人, 大家都清楚.
自从蒋爸妈来了以后, 日子过得轻松了好多. 真是饭来张口, 衣来伸手.
吃饭去咯.
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一次新的挑战, 一抹新的回忆.
上周日下午三点半, 和J,ZF一起, 两男一女, 三人行, 向深圳最高峰发起攻势--爬梧桐山.
从长岭出发, 一走进山里, 一阵阵清风扑鼻而来, 还能闻到泥土的芬芳, 树木的清香, 再加上某种动物的特殊气味, 让人完全沉浸在大自然的怀抱中. 不时能看到一条条微型的从山缝里流下来的小溪, 洗把脸, 洗下脚, 冰凉冰凉. 除ZF以外, 由于我俩长期没有进行体力运动(除了麻将有上肢运动外), 爬到还不够一半的路程, 就显得气喘吁吁.
山路曲折无常, 时而平坦, 时而陡峭. 幸亏有阶梯, 不然那近乎90度直角的陡路, 估计我们是很难克服的. 否则就算我们四肢都用上了也不一定能平安登顶. 每走一段, 我趁喘气的那会儿功夫都会俯瞰一下深圳的全景. 深圳离我的视线越来越远, 我离山顶的距离就会越来越近.
在一段最陡最险的路上, 阶梯非常窄, 只能容下半只脚. 陡, 陡到一抬头, 就是阶梯,
让人很后怕的那种.
心放宽了, 心情大好, 能战胜自己, 就能战胜万物.
在这里也偷偷地说一个笑话. 事后, 我跟同伴们说起这段陡路的心路历程. 原来, 大家在那段路上都是一个人. 在那段'特殊'时期, 有人跟我想的一样. 但是有人跟我们想得很不一样. 他说, '我前后看了看, 没有一个人, 我心里好开心啊, 终于可以偷偷地坐下来休息一下, 没人发现, 不会笑话我了!' .
快登顶小梧桐的时候, 因为山顶积压的云层太厚, 天下起雨来. 雨越来越大, 我们不得不撑伞. 一看山脚下的深圳城区, 还在出太阳. 风吹着伸手可及的云从身边翻滚着飘过, 宛如来到仙境.
过了小梧桐, 登好汉坡时可用艰难这个词来形容了. 由于下雨再加上体力上的原因, 我们的进度越来越慢. 而且伞的数量不够用, 还要冒大雨前行. 我们一路走, 一路看地上的路标, 100米, 200米, 1/3, 2=1/2, 3/4... 这些数据一路支撑着我们, 用数据来鼓励自己. 天色越来越暗, 海拔943.70米的山顶离我们越来越近...
登顶了!
归途. 一股股的水流顺着阶梯而下, 更增加了我们行走的难度. 有时看不太清阶梯到底在哪里. 我们只好相互扶持着摸索着前进.
不知不觉,
夜雨中的深圳似乎更美了, 公路上的灯蜿蜒曲折, 连成一条龙.
八点半, 成功下山. Congratulations!
(想贴点照片上来, 失败N次. 彻底放弃!!!)
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On May 12, 2008, China experienced a terrible earthquake in SiChuan province. The earthquake caused extremely serious damage to China. The earthquake lasted only several minutes, but thousands of people lost their lives in this disaster, thousands of buildings collapsed, thousands of people lost their families and relatives. Up to now, there are 69159 people died in this disaster, 374141 people were hurt, and 17469 people disappeared. If we don't watch TV or listen to the broadcast about this earthquake, maybe we could not image how serious and how suffering the disaster area encountered.
'If there is a very tiny possibility to save the survival, we will contribute 100% effort', prime minister, WenJiaBao's words became the impressive slogan to call on every Chinese people to join up the donation. Every Chinese resident, organization, media donated their continuous support to help the victims to have their homes rebuilt. With our effort, China will recover from the wound in a shortest time. China is a strong and powerful united nation. Chinese people will combine bravely and never give in to the nature disaster.
When we faced the earthquake, life had become very weak, so easy to lose. I think the desire to those survivals under the ruins is nothing but to live on. The money, the car, the house, became so meaningless to them at that moment. I think we should have learnt something from the earthquake. As far as I know, most of us are complaining about something, like' I haven't enough money to buy a car or a house!', 'I have to work overtime every night!', 'I lost the chance to get a well-paid job!' 'The bus is so crowded!', 'I am so fat that I can’t wear the beautiful skirt!' and so on. But in comparison, we are so lucky to victims in the earthquake. We are still alive, we have healthy body, and we have the chance to see the rising sun everyday in the morning! Don't we? As long as our lives go on, we can strive for the hope we want. We'd better cherish our own lives, be kind to ourselves, and be kind to our families and friends. Try to keep a good mood everyday.
I want to quoted one sentence wrote by Mr. Pierre De Coubertin, 'The essence of life is not taking but struggle.' Stop complaints, adapt yourself to be satisfied with your current life, and continue to strive for your desired colorful life. You will feel good when life goes on.
(Thanks for J's modification)
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今天湖人惨败给了凯尔特人, 以总比分2:4的成绩结束了NBA的总决赛.
看球的时候觉得很揪心.
天都哭了. 哭得够狠.
科比, 明年再来.
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