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这篇文章写得非常好,我觉得不管是不是在做技术工作,都非常值得学习。

 
写在冬日的第一天--一个女程序员第五年工作总结冬日如期而至,一晃又是一年。
这是我参加工作的第五年,原以为会有一个阶段性的提升。哪想一场金融风暴,萧条至今。这个世道,有一份工作就应谢天谢地了。
我会用流水账般的文字絮叨今年的总结,很长很无聊 (技术不多,基本上是工作方法。 ) 对于怀揣抱负者,这份总结算是反面教材;对于初出茅庐者,我现在的心境是五年来的积累;还请看我刚参加工作时候的那些总结。
去年写完总结领导给让我设计一个数据库。这个数据库在我刚刚参加工作的时候设计过 (不是目前这家公司
),那个时候由于对需求不了解,数据库设计的可拓展性不强。随着工作时间的增长,对于行业需求了解的增多,如今再让我设计几乎同样的数据库,真是一个弥补遗憾的好机会。
我开始翻看当年的工作涂鸦。(老师说过,好脑子不如烂笔头子。从工作第一日起,每日作了什么,遇到什么困难,解决方案,新想法都会随手写下来。跳槽的时候也带着这些笔记本。 )
为一年后记录(2009-10-26 10:41)
昨天找机会和一个学姐聊天,聊学习和生活的郁闷,之后又聊到心态的问题。

她说,自己的心态与刚刚开始的时候好了很多,很多事情都看开了。虽然现在也是总遇到大大小小的烦心事,但是承受能力比以前要提高了很多。另外,现在也更多地懂得享受生活了,因为有的时候错过一个享受的机会,以后也许就再也不会遇到了。

也许这位学姐的感受在相当程度上代表了一部分留学生的心理状态吧。从开始的紧张,到现在的缓解与适应。的确,我无法想象在美国经历一年的生活后自己是否还会保持和现在一样的心态与状态,就像她说的那样,“我原来觉得我根本不会改变”。

说到享受,我倒是不敢苟同她的观点。至少从我来说,我不会像他们那样每周出去玩,吃饭,唱歌,旅游之类的所谓的享受。不是我不愿意出去,而是当你眼前有一大堆书要看,作业要做的时候,你怎么能下的了决心把它们扔在一边就去所谓“享受生活”?当然了,你也可以玩完回来之后继续做作业,熬夜在deadline前把project搞完了,或者把作业拖到最后一天。这些当然都可以了,但是不适合我。我知道我必须要花很多很多时间去理解一些知识,所以我
It's the longest time that I chatted with a native speaker in US, about half an hour. And what we talked about was not just something like hobbies, sports or entertainment, but about the differences of America and China. To be specific, the independence of US and respect for old people in US and China.

I am confident now with the golden rule, well-prepared people can do things with ease - since I spent hours reading the assigned articles and searching information from the Internet. 

I will surely and firmly stick to this rule from now on.
It's so good to have true friends around me when I'm down.
For me it is not a matter of need some comfort, what is more important is that, I need something encouraging myself, to lift up my spirit to a new level.
It was just the few sentences, phrases or even words that could right hit the point and gave me enough encouragement: only well-prepared people can do things with ease. I should never expect success (in ANY field) to happen overnight, nor should I purposely miss important steps on knowledge accumulation. 

And ... the most important thing is that keep remind myself to be more and more hardworking, and properly adjust my skills on learning and everything.

Thanks Sean, it's always time to move on.
http://translate.google.cn/translate_t?hl=zh-CN&sl=en&tl=zh-CN#
这个网址可以翻译,不过翻译过后得自己组织句子,也可能有不准。
想起“离别”(2009-10-12 00:08)
不知道为什么突然想起了我们班吃散伙饭的那一天。

散伙饭结束时,大家陆陆续续都走了。剩下的几个同学和我们班的赵老师道别,大家说着说着就开始哭起来。赵老师说,不知道以后多长时间可以再见。
看着他们,我心里有一种说不出的感觉。我并不没有像他们那么流泪,也没有特别的伤感,虽然离别在每个人概念中的确应该是一种令人“伤心”的事。可能是想到未来还有更多的生活等待我去努力吧,我的伤感就在某种程度上被冲淡了。

我看着赵老师那么伤心地放声大哭,心里其实好难过啊。不是为离别,而是为赵老师。赵老师是快50岁的人了,我想他们这样年纪的人是否会在离别的时刻更容易感伤。虽然老师总是笑着对我们说,你们以后都会有出息的。但是,我想他的心里可能还是会为我们担心吧。我们每个学生就像老师们的孩子一样,只不过朝夕相处了那么几年愉快的时光之后就要离别,面对不可知的未来了。
他们就像家长一样关注着我们的未来,我当然希望能够不辜负这种期待,因此就更没有理由伤感。

想起另一场“离别”,那是我在西安咸阳机场过安检,即将离开西安飞往美国的时
Let no youth have any anxiety about the upshot of his education, whatever the line of it may be. If he keeps faithfully busy each hour of the working day, he may safely leave the final result to itself. He can, with perfect certainty, count on waking up some fine morning to find himself one of the competent ones of his generation, in whatever pursuit he may have singled out.

-- Prof. William James

When we learn any new thing, like French or golf or speaking in public, we never advance steadily. We do not improve gradually. We do it by waves, by abrupt starts and sudden stops. Then we remain stationary a time, or we may even slip back and lose some of the ground we have previously gained. These periods of stagnation, or retrogression, are well known by all psychologists: they have been named 'plateaus in the curve of learning.' Students of effective speaking will sometimes be stalled, perhaps for weeks, on one of these plateaus. Work as hard as they may, they cannot seem to get off it. The weak ones give up in despair. Those with grit persist, and they find that suddenly, almost overnight, without knowing how or why it has happened, they have made great progress. They have lifted from the plateau like an airplane. Abruptly they have acquired naturalness, force, and confidence in their skills. 

One time a young man who aspired to study law wr
虽然是很短小的文章,但是不知道它从哪个角落深深地触动了我的内心。我觉得,它足以让人泪流满面。
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一生中任何人都无能为力的十件事情

1 倒向你的墙 

也许这面倒向你的墙,让你无法呼吸,也许会让你失去一切,但是如果沉默的接受,那么,倒向你的还是那面墙,如果你挺起肩膀,抬起头来你会发现很多事情不是像我们想象的那么糟。 

“永远不要后退,退到最后无路可退。” 


2 离你而去的人 


离你远去的人,是他失去了你,不是你失去了他。离开,也许是为了下个路口的更好的重逢。 

“离开,生命中注定了太多的离开。” 


3 流逝的时间 


时间比水流失的还要
I believe the true road to pre-eminent success in any line is to make yourself master in that line. I have no faith in the policy of scattering one's resources, and in my experience I have rarely if ever met a man who achieved pre-eminence in money-making -- certainly never one in manufacturing who was interested in many concerns. The men who have succeeded are the men who have chosen one line and stuck to it.