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时不我待,转眼间已经一个月没有更新博客了。理由是什么,应该没时间更新,课业过重才对。可我却想不起来这一个月究竟做了什么,书没看,似乎什么也没干,试着去回想,却是一片空白,似乎只有一样东西是真的,那就是空虚。
所以,我不禁感叹,如果我们没有了回忆,还会剩下什么?随着年龄的增长,早期的记忆变得越来越模糊,而那些也可能是我们一生中仅有的一点纯真无邪的回忆了,如果这点宝贵的财富也流失的话,再想在心中找一块纯净之地就更难了。所以,我觉得有必要采取些方法将它留住,在自己难辨事理,迷惘之时,能够用它来净化一下心灵。
昨天晚上躺在床上任思绪漫步,头脑中浮现出了一幕幕儿时快乐、美好的情景,才觉得好多种美好已经随时间逝去了,既然挽留无用,就只能在记忆中回顾了。想来想去,最好的办法就是把至今仍可记起的片段写出来,让它从此永远清晰,
  Don't be afraid of people who may have better idea than you or cleverer than you.
  David.ogalwy was the founder of ogawel-matha ad company. To demonstrate the point to the people who were in charge of the department, he presented everyone a Russian doll. There were five dolls in all. One was smaller than another.
  His words was put in the smallest doll:'If everyone of us employ person who is shorter than himself, our company will become a small one.But if everyone can employ person who is higher than him, then our company will be a giant one.' And that is precisely what the company become-one of the largest and most respected advertising organizations in the world.
   There is a story. It tells a nurse's work of her first day in a famous hospital. In a surgery of abdomen, she was responsible for counting the number of instrument and staff. The nurse said to the doctor:'you only pick out 11 pieces of cloth, but we used 12 pieces. we have to find the last one.' 'I have picked all of them out.' The doctor said surly.'Now we have to sew up.'
  'you can not do it like this, sir,' The nurse opposed.'you'd better consider for the patient.'
  The doctor lift up his feet with smile. The nurse saw the twelfth piece of cloth. He said to the nurse:'Either you work in this hospital or in others, you will be competent.'
  When you know you are right, you can not set back.
 My grandparants believed that you were either honest or dishonest. There was not any other choices. They ever hang a piece of famous words on the wall of their livingroom which said that :'life is just like the field with the first snow on it, the road I choose to walk on must be clear.'The sentence didn't need their explanation. Their lives was the better explanation to the sentence.
  They instinctively understood that honesty meant you have your own moral standard and the standard can not betray you because your benefit. It never changed with the current situation. Honesty is the inner standard which is used to measure your activity. It's sorry that honesty becomes short of supply and it's hard find honest people. But it is a basic real standard which is needed by every areas of society and a thing which we have to ask ourselves to own.
  The saying-three principles of honesty is a good proof to the value standard. The three principles are
It's my obligation(2007-11-02 22:07)
   Because I was so busy that I only had limit time to spend with her. Nowadays, I often forget things about her. I feel sorry for my ignoring. Years ago, she sacrified lots of cherish things for me, but today it's a little selfish for me to neglect her sometime.
  Today, I made mistake again. I let her wait for me for 30 minutes because of my bussiness. To some extend, I am not competent. I can not deal with the contrary between her and the work. I always sacrified her benefit.
  At noon, when we have lunch together, she was angry with me. That's my fault. I was wrong. So I can comprehend her indignity and do my best to comefort her.
  In the evening, she said to me that she was very sorry for her yelling at me. She also thanks for my forgiving. Hearing this, I feel guilty in my heart. I can not stop to ask myself that am I competent to be 
过程也精彩(2007-10-20 22:41)
排练了一周多的节目今天终于预审了,两个节目我都有参加,但今天我也两次因为节目质量不过关被叫停赶下了台。
其实我心里很不舒服,但在同学面前只能故作坚强,因为我有安慰大家的责任和义务,如果我也在抱怨,也灰心丧气,大家就更沮丧了。但说心里话,我心里很难受。大家放弃学习,放弃各种各样的事情,放弃准备各种考试的时间聚在一起排练节目,暂且不说节目的质量好坏,起码出于对大家的尊重,各位老师应该把节目看完,但事情就这样的发生了,有一半的演员甚至还没有上台就被叫停了,试问各位老师,你们把大家的尊严放到了何处,又把你们自己的尊严放到了何处。羡宇同学熬夜赶出来的DV你们更是看都没看几眼就放到了一边,试问这又会让积极付出的同学有怎样的感想。如果说老师们的时间宝贵,那同学们的时间难道就分文不值吗?
抱怨归抱怨,在排练的过程成我们也得到了
一路精彩(2007-10-15 14:05)
今日闲来无事,无意间翻开了电脑中的旧相册,不禁感慨颇多。
这两年一直无目的的忙碌,以至于没有时间停下来思考曾经拥有过什么,曾经经历过什么,曾经最珍贵的是什么,曾经最值得回忆的是什么。所以偶尔会觉得内心很空虚,仿佛一切都不曾拥有,不曾经历,一路走来,空空荡荡。
今天翻开照片,看着往事的一幕幕,回忆无限。突然感叹原来我曾经拥有这么多,原来我层一路精彩!!!
往事虽然逝去,看来我们却不能让它沉积,时常用石子激起涟漪,回忆才永久,美好而甜蜜。
 
今天不知道为什么,很想写点什么,似乎一直以来有太多的心情没地方发泄,终于找到了一个阵地一样。
这次我要说,我的博客中不能没有她。开博了这么久才把我生命中如此重要的人写进来,实在有些惭愧,她是谁呢,呵呵,认识我的人一定知道啦——她就是无敌超级美丽,大方端庄贤惠的美女张同学啦
呵呵,没错,她就是我的女朋友啦。可惜,这位美女十一回家省亲去啦,不然可能会和我去唐山一游吧。
这几年本人的生活其实也比较窘迫,实在不可以用顺利和成功来形容,幸亏有她一路陪伴,给我加油打气,我才能重新振作,不断努力前行,在这里我真的要说一声谢谢啦,如果不是你回家,恐怕
唐山归来(2007-10-03 13:17)
十月一日,我不太情愿地来到北京站,准备坐大巴去唐山看望弟弟。心情不好,办事也就处处不顺,在车站足足站了四个多小时,才上了车,等到了唐山,已经下午六点多了。其实我自己真是不愿意赶在十一的时候出门,本来就有晕车的毛病,再加上人一多,心里不免烦躁,心情肯定很差,但为了让父母安心,没有办法,只能苦自己一趟了。
因为心情不好,所以就想找人发泄一下,所以弟弟恐怕难免要成为我的出气筒了,但到了弟弟的住处,见到弟弟的窘境,什么气都消了,剩下的就只有心酸和疼惜了。是我亲手送弟弟去唐山上班,所以他这半年来的变化也只有我最清楚,人比刚去时消瘦了很多,头发凌乱,且留起了胡子。这幅形象实在让我又疼又恨。从小一起长大的亲兄弟,我不清楚为什么会有这么大的差距。一个人出门在外,父母不在身边,为什么就不能让自己整洁光鲜,为何要弄得如此窘迫。
欢庆十一(2007-09-30 11:10)
大家盼望十一再次来临了,对我来说却没什么可以兴奋的。
逢年过节是大家团聚、欢乐的日子,可对我来说却不见得是什么好事。坐下来静静想想,才感觉到平常是福啊。所谓的节日不过是人为规定的一年中的某一天而已,在我这却没有什么特殊的意义了。过年是团圆的日子,在我这却会多出几分忧愁,因为人多必乱;中秋是欢聚的日子,在我这却有几分凄凉,似乎亲情疏远。十一是玩乐休息的日子,在我这又多了几分孤寂,好像友情难得。
平常日子做平常事,踏实,稳定,充实,平静。节日里做平常事,做作,慌乱,空虚,无际。平常日子当节日过,新鲜,奇特,刺激,灵活。节日当作节日过,无聊。
生活中只要平淡,充实,有人相伴,心无孤寂,每天都是过节。节日如果空虚,无聊,