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生活需要方向(2009-11-24 10:08)
    生活有的时候需要一个方向,换句现在流行的话说就是找到自己觉得有意义的事做!有意义就是好好活,好好活就是做有意义的事,这句士兵突击中的名言似乎成了当下年轻人的生活坐标。我也期望着自己能够这样高喊好好活,做有意义的事情。但是我的那根犯贱的神经又开始跑出来作祟了,几乎让人很头疼现在的自己,生活有的时候也需要方向,我的方向太多了,每个方向都有人在对我高喊,“来吧!”结果我该向哪儿走?人都说四十而不惑,我是否也到了四十才不惑,那么那个时候有方向了,是否有意义!
1、不论你住得多么远,每天早上最少提前10分钟到办公室,如果是统一班车,也应提前5分钟赶到候车点。上班不迟到,少请假。
  2、在任何地方,碰到同事、熟人都要主动打招呼,要诚恳。
  3、在车上,要主动给年长者、领导、女同事让座。不要与任何人争上车先后、争座位。
  4、进入办公室应主动整理卫生,即使有专职清洁工,自己的办公桌也要自己清理。这一切都应在上班时间正式开始前完成。
  5、早餐应在办公室之外的地方、上班开始前的时间里完成。
  6、每天工作开始前,应花5至10分钟时间对全天的工作做一个书面的安排,特别要注意昨天没完成的工作。
  7、每天都要把必须向领导汇报、必须同别人商量研究的工作安排在前面。
  8、找领导、同事汇报、联系工作,应事前预约,轻声敲门,热情打招呼。
  9、上班时间,不要安排处理私事的时间,特殊情况须提前向领导请示。
  10、工作需要之外,不要利用工作电脑聊天、游戏、看新闻。
  11、不可利用工作电话聊天。即使是工作需要通话,也应长话短说,礼貌用语。
  12、在办公室说话做事,都不应发出太大的声音,以不影响他人工作为

随地吐痰。在中国,特别是在一些北方城市走路时一定要多加注意,因为那些无处不见的痰迹让你踩上恶心,看到更恶心。痰从某些人的口中被肆无忌惮地吐在任何他们想吐的地方,哪怕他离着你近在咫尺,也照样会吐沫飞溅,甚至是从各种各样的交通工具上也会不时地飞出一口,让人躲闪不及。现实中国,痰和狗屎无时无刻不在污染着环境,又传播着疾病。

不守交规。如今,开车的不守规矩,看那高速飙车的,酒后摇摇晃晃的,“马路杀手”们握起了方向盘就如入无人之境。可有些骑车和走路的也不守规矩,看那电动自行车以“飞”一般的速度在快车道上和汽车比赛,带一个人不过瘾就前后各一位,看那过马路的行人硬是闯红灯,全然把自己的生死“置之度外”。真是搞不清楚,中国的交通规则是定给谁看的了,大家好像谁都不关心。

 

炫富。中国的奢侈品消费据说已经排名世界第二,在全球都金融危机的时候,中国人的各项开销却一点也不见少,五花八门的各大品牌依旧频频在国内开新店,中国人真的有钱了?其实,炫富是国人的“时尚理念”,有钱的拼命花在脸面上,“富一代”们守着财传家,“富二代”当

放松自己(2009-11-16 10:07)

面对来自各个方面的压力,你总是试图去寻找如何去解脱压力带来影响,有时你可能刻意去安排一次郊游或寻找一个无人的地方,静静地坐一会,这些方法虽然有效,但是也有其不足,你必须有足够的时间和金钱才能完成这些活动。心理学家教给你一种方法,操作简单,无须花费,随时随地可以进行。

为什么放松可以减轻压力
当一个人放松时,他或她的注意力就会集中在压力以外的事情上,帮助自己放松大脑,放松身体,排除由于压力带来的毒素。
放松的好处有 8 点:
·呼吸变缓
·血压降低
·肌肉放松
·头痛消失
·情绪稳定
·思维清晰
·记忆力提高
·焦虑、忧虑消失


放松心理操
一、放松姿势训练
此项训练的目的是教给被训练者学会最基本的放松姿势,并能够根据当时当地的实际情况加以练习。
1. 平躺
可以根据实际情况,选择床上、躺椅、地面等地方。双腿伸直,微微分开。如果感到不舒适,双腿可以稍做弯曲的姿势。如果头部不舒服,可以在颈下放置枕头或类似的物品。如果背部不舒服,可以放置一些衣物等,以达到舒适之目的。
此阶段训练最主要的目的是

a brother like that(2009-11-16 10:05)
 A Brother Like That  A friend of mine named Paul received an automobile from his brother as a Christmas present. On Christmas Eve when Paul came out of his office, a street urchin was walking around the shiny new car, admiring it.  'Is this your car, Mister?' he said.  Paul nodded. 'My brother gave it to me for Christmas.' The boy was astounded. 'You mean your brother gave it to you and it didn’t cost you nothing? Boy, I wish . . .' He hesitated.  Of course Paul knew what he was going to wish for. He was going to wish he had a brother like that. But what the lad said jarred Paul all the way down to his heels.  'I wish,' the boy went on, 'That I could be a brother  like that.'  Paul looked at the boy in astonishment, then impulsively he added, 'Would you like to take a ride in my car?'  'Oh yes, Id love that.'  After a short ride, the boy turned with his eyes aglow, said, 'Mister, would you mind driving in front of my house?'  Paul smiled a little. He thought he knew what the lad
come on over(2009-11-16 10:03)

come on over
written by twain lange
get a life
get a grip
get away somewhere
take a trip
take a break
take control
take advice from someone you know
come on over

come on in
pull up a seat
take a load off your feet
come on over
come on in you can unwind
take a load off your mind
make a wish
make a move
make up your mind
you can choose
when you're up
when you're down
when you need a laugh come around
oh, oh, oh-
be

sit down here(2009-11-16 10:00)

Your words cut rather deeply
Theyre just some other lies
Im hiding from a distance
Ive got to pay the price
Defending all against it
I really dont know why
Youre obsessed with all my secrets
You always make me cry
You seem to wanna hurt me
No matter what I do
Im telling just a couple
But somehow it gets to you
But Ive learned to get revenge
And I swear youll experience that someday

Im sitting down here but hey, you cant see me
Kinda invisible, you dont sense my stay
Not really hiding, not like a shadow
Just thought I would join you for one day
Im sitting down here but hey, you cant see me

Im not trying to avoid you
Just dont wanna hear your voice
When you call me up so often
I dont really have a choice
Youre talking like you know me
And wanna be my friend
But thats really too late now
I wont try it once again
You may thin

I have nothing(2009-11-16 09:58)
Share my life, take me for what I am
Cause I’ll never change all my colours for you
Take my love, I’ll never ask for too much
Just all that you are and everything that you do
I don’t really need to look very much further
I don’t want to have to go where you don’t follow
I won’t hold it back again, this passion inside
Can’t run from myself
There’s nowhere to hide
Don’t make me close one more door
I don’t wanna hurt anymore
Stay in my arms if you dare
Or must I imagine you there
Don’t walk away from me...
I have nothing, nothing, nothing
If I don’t have you, you
you ,you, you
You see through, right to the heart of me
You break down my walls with the strength of you love
I never knew love like I’ve known it with you
Will a memory survive, one I can hold on to
   本学期由于是新接手的班级,学生的情况不是十分了解,他们的英语基础如何,在后来的教学中才慢慢的显现出来。我在自己的课堂中总感觉学生不能适应自己的教学方式:学生上课回答问题不积极,参与教学活动的积极性不高。只是一味的听老师讲和做笔记。听课效率不高。经分析,原因是自己上课方式与学生以前的老师的教学方式不一样,学生不能适应;课堂上我用的英语过多,语速过快,学生跟不上、听不懂。而自己也没有很好的了解学生的实际情况,学生不回答问题或不参与教学活动,只是一味的埋怨和批评,致使学生上课更不敢回答问题,生怕回答错了以后老师会不高兴。

    反思;1、教师要有课堂效益意识。有效的媒体手段有助于课堂容量、密度和速度的提高。不但可以活跃课堂,更能提高学生的参与面,能有效的吸引并集中学生的学习注意,从而最终提高学习的听课效益;自己正好缺乏这方面的运用;其次,课堂效益还体现在如何设计教学。课堂设计要有助于学生在课堂上积极参与,有助于他们有效内化知识与信息,复习过程中要重视学习方法的指导,在教学中恰当地渗透中考的信息,拓宽教学内容。2、英语课

close to you(2009-11-16 09:52)
Nobody pays much attention they misuse their time
Maybe it's better to mention moments passing by
A secret to tell
I got something they don't have
and baby it's you that is lifting me high
I just wanna be close to you
'cos I understand the strength of your hand
oh and love that you put me through
you're more than a friend so love me again
Baby you're full of affection
people stop and smile
maybe they see my intention
to make life worthwhile
A secret to tell
now there's nothing holding back
'cos baby it's you that is making me fly
I just wanna be close to you
'cos I understand
the strength of your hand
oh and love that you put me through
you're more than a friend
so love me again
I just wanna be close to you'cos I understand
the strength of your hand
oh and love that you put me through
you're more than a friend
A secret to tell
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妈妈最爱的女人

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猫样的男子

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