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情感

 

一夜有阵阵凉风,睡得不甚踏实。

拉开窗帘,打开窗子,看到水墨色的天空,朵朵淡灰色的水雾缓缓平移。

 

有两只飞鸟掠过,轻轻的。

它在空中舒展着翅膀,根据气流不时调整着平衡,似乎把自己当成一片羽毛,凭着轻轻的风力和气流,便可以轻捷地前行,看起来多么平滑。

只见它若水流之行,顺势而发。

莞而。一只鸟若不停挣扎,扑棱着翅,又能飞多远?

躯体,作为飞翔之器;精神,作为飞翔之凭。这飞行的鸟,我所看到的,只是它的刹那,它必有自己的去处,和一日日的生活。自然的,那也是美的。

 

淡墨色的天,绿色屋顶,红砖的墙,洁净的窗。屋顶上有歇脚的鸟。时而拍

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(2009-09-25 07:08)
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杂谈

      I’ve learned that you cannot make someone love you. All you can do is be someone who can be loved. The rest is up to them. I’ve learned that no matter how much I care, some people just don’t care back. 
  I’ve learned that it takes years to build up trust, and only seconds to destroy it.
  I’ve learned that it’s not what you have in your life but who you have in your life that counts.
  I’ve learned that you can get by on charm for about fifteen minutes. After that, you’d better know something.
  I’ve learned that you shouldn’t compare yourself to the best others can do.
  I’ve learned that you can do something in an instant that will give you heartache for life.
  I’ve learned that it’s taking me a long time to become the person I want to be.
  I’ve learned that you should always leave loved ones with loving words. It may be the last time you see
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娱乐

Josh Groban

When I am down and, oh my soul, so weary;
When troubles come and my heart burdened be;
Then, I am still and wait here in the silence,
Until you come and sit awhile with me.

You raise me up, so I can stand on mountains;
You raise me up, to walk on stormy seas;
I am strong, when I am on your shoulders;
You raise me up: To more than I can be.

You raise me up, so
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Sunday 9 August – The Edinburgh Festivals’ Cavalcade

Every year 150,000 spectators watch this procession of Fringe performers, community groups, commercial floats, bands, motorbikes, and the entire cast of the Edinburgh Military Tattoo.

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(2009-08-08 02:33)
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杂谈

1、人生不公平但依然美好。

2、当你怀疑时,不妨尝试一小步。

3、人生太短暂,不要把时间浪费在伤害他人上。

 

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杂谈

1. Life isn't fair, but it's still good.
2. When in doubt, just take the next small step.
3. Life is too short to waste time hating anyone.

4. Your job won't take care of you when you are sick. Your friends and parents will. Stay in touch.
5. Pay off your credit cards every month.
6. You don't have to win every argument. Agree to disagree.
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简介

有人说孤独是可耻的,但实际上我们的本质就是孤独。

原文链接:

http://www.urbanmonk.net/136/loneliness-the-beginning-of-romance/

 

当我们深深陷入寂寞时,什么能够抚慰我们——什么能够让我们远离寂寞?到底是什么?常常我们觉得没有什么能够安慰我们,想要摆脱寂寞就像要摆脱影子一样不可能。在某种程度上确实如此,我们没办法逃离寂寞,我们总是处于寂寞之中。但实际上还是有一个办法的。

我们为摆脱寂寞所做的一切从根本上说是存在缺陷的,因为我们不理解我们正在逃离的东西的本质。其实寂寞也有它美丽的一面。当你看到并承认这一点,学着以寂寞为乐时,你内心的某些东西便会开始慢慢发生变化。当寂寞变成孤独时,自由便来临了,真正的爱情也来临了!

破碎后找寻整体性

正如奥修所说:第一件事就是要对

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文化

简介

何为聪明人?何为智者?哪种人既没智慧,也不聪明?

 

一个人聪明与否要看他的回答。一个人是否有智慧则要看他的提问。
纳吉布.马福兹,作家 (1911- )

聪明人总会告诉你答案。甚至是你没留意过的事情。其目的是给你留下印象。更确切地说,正如纳西塞斯*一样,是为了要从你脸上的反应看到所映衬出的自己。


这也许是由于自负、骄傲以及不安全感导致他要寻求你的反应。你是聪明人需求的实现。你是满足了他需求的听众。

智者不会试图说服你任何事情。智者试图构建自我,而非你。他提出问题,因为他想了解更多东西。他需要了解更多,因为他意识到,有那么多的东西他几乎一无所知。他意识到自己不懂的要多于他懂的。

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教育

转自《译言》http://www.yeeyan.com/articles/view/suli/33371?ymail

February 18, 2008 @ 2:00 pm

     最近,我讨论了自我投资的价值-花时间和金钱在完善你自己上,而不是购买资产。今天,我们先来看看自我投资的其中一方面,这也是将要开始的有关这个主题的系列文章的一部分。这一主题在这两周的每个工作日会推出一篇文章。如果你想回顾全部的文章,请查看“自我投资”目录下。

     当我从高中毕业时,我幸运的成为了我们家庭中第一个进大学的人。我赢得了多到足够用来支付四年州立

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时尚

We can’t articulate it, but we know a charming person when we see one. It’s that person at the party who seems to know everybody. He works the crowd with such ease and has a positive aura about him, and everybody just seems drawn to him like steel to a magnet. He leaves people thinking “What a great guy!” and seems to have it all together.

I would be a fool if I wrote an article on how to be charming if I wasn’t charming to begin with. I don’t mean to say I’m the most charming man on the face of the earth, but I do have my moments. I’ve reflected back on those moments, studied other charismatic people, read books on the subject, and asked other charismatic people to share their insights on this elusive trait. You know what I learned? Charisma is not genetic. It can be learned. On to the 8 tips.

1. Get your own life in order first.

When everything is going right in your life, the world is your oyster. You’re in the zone, you’re on top o

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(2009-03-13 06:32)
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杂谈

人生的时光短暂,青春的时光更短。

看了一篇关于中医调理的文章,才发现原来自己生活得多么漫不经心。

最近的作息和情绪,已经发作在后背,变成点点红豆。

 

在年少的时候,我们注意过时光的流逝吗?

但是又不懂如何去珍惜,只能任它一点点的离去。

像个没有断奶的孩子,心理上还有太多的恐惧和依赖。

还有很多压力,很多挣扎,很多不切实际的梦想。

只是还不曾懂得怎么去真正爱自己,安排好自己的生活。

要负责自己的美丽,快乐,幸福。

不自爱者,何以爱人。生活不是简单的请客吃饭。

 

每天作息颠倒,思绪纷乱,生活无重点,看书无侧重,处世不思考,怎么可以。

29岁了,是时候爱生活,爱自己。走了一个30年,还有30年的青春要继续。:)

 

每天22:00前休息。

早上6点起床。

 

吃有营养的东西。

喝足够的水。

调养好身体。

做应该做的事。

不为难,折磨、虐待、惩罚自己。

每天都更爱自己,和珍惜爱自己的人。

 

前几天买了一件衣服。很喜欢。

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