Chinita的备忘录

（没读过亦舒，在豆瓣看到的她的语录，觉得不错。）

    1.人生短短数十载，最要紧的是满足自己，不是讨好他人。
　　2.既非正式比赛，松点又何妨，得饶人处且饶人。
　　3.每个人总有不愿意公开的秘密，千万不要苦苦相逼。
　　4.为工作出力永远获得报酬，为一个人费心事最划不来。
　　5.人的理想永远忽隐忽现，却不离不弃，在沮丧失望的时候，理想会来鼓励他，但理想虚无缥缈，无从捉摸。
　　6.人们日常所犯最大的错误是对陌生人太客气而对亲密人太苛刻，把这个坏习惯改过来，天下太平。
　　7.我再沦落，我还是爱我，可是为着要别人爱我，我不得不做些叫他们看得顺眼的事。
　　8.我的理想生活是，天天可以睡到自然醒，不做什么，不负啥责任，同我爱的，以及爱我的人，一起坐着说话，笑着看日落。
　　9.一家人的事最好一家人关起门来说清楚，最忌找外人来主持公道，不僵也会搞僵，外人许存看热闹之心，可能惟恐天下不乱，言语传来传去，又易生误会。
　　10.一个人的心原来是世界上最寂寞的地方，每个人都渴望被爱，如果没有人主动爱人，则没有人会被爱，困难已经过去

1.A school without football is in danger of deteriorating into a medi study hall.

2.Coaches who can outline plays on a black board are a dime a dozen. The ones who win get inside their player and motivate.

3.Confidence is contagious. So is lack of confidence.

4.Dictionary is the only place that success comes before work. Hard work is the price we must pay for success. I think you can accomplish anything if you're willing to pay the price.

5.Fatigue makes cowards of us all.

6.Football is like life - it requires perseverance, self-denial, hard work, sacrifice, dedication and respect for a

On behalf of the great state of Illinois, crossroads of a nation, land of Lincoln, let me express my deep gratitude for the privilege of addressing this convention. Tonight is a particular honor for me because, let's face it, my presence on this stage is pretty unlikely.

My father was a foreign student, born and raised in a small village in Kenya. He grew up herding goats, went to school in a tin- roof shack. His father, my grandfather, was a cook, a domestic servant to the British.
But my grandfather had larger dreams for his son. Through hard work and perseverance my father got a scholarship to study in a magical place, America, that's shown as a beacon of freedom and opportunity to so many who had come before him.

While studying here my father met my mother. She was born in a town on the other side of the world, in Kansas.

Her father worked on oil rigs and farms through most of the Depression. The

[转自天涯]

一、张中行笔下的赵丽雅（注：赵丽雅为扬之水原名）
　　　　
　　　　张中行先生在他的《负暄三话》中，撰有《赵丽雅》一文，对赵丽雅其人、其才有生动的描述。以下我们摘选了文章的部分内容，以飨读者。———编者
　　　　
　　　　她身量不高，体形不窈窕，一见就大致可以断定是福建人。但她又说也可以算浙江人，为什么，她说过，我没记住。何时何因北来，上过什么学校，我也问过她，只是把答话当作耳旁风，吹过去就不管了。她的经历，除去嫁个规规矩矩的高干子弟，生个孩子之外，任《读书》编辑之前，我最清楚的是，大革命时期，也是她的少女时期，在北京王府井大街一食品店操刀卖西瓜。这方面她也是全才，由开卡车到瓜地去运，到切成块在门口叫卖，都会。就这样，连续七年，其后跨过一两个与文有些关联的小桥，就走入《读书》，终于投刀而改为拿笔。这变动像是颇为离奇，其实也未背离因果规律，是她的生活早已离奇。这是上工时间开卡车，或在店门口叫卖，下工以后就拿起书或笔，从不休息。日久天长，功能自然成，被《读书》发现，于是改行，在她看来，对了口。