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师爱不是什么
　　吴康宁   南京师范大学副校长、教授、博士生导师

[提要]“师爱”（教师对学生的爱）是教师从教的首要条件。师爱超越了私己的范畴，它是一种“公爱”，即来自社会的爱。师爱抵御着“偏袒”的侵蚀，它是一种“博爱”，即爱每一个学生。这样的师爱，既是教师的德性，也是学生的福音。

　　“师爱”（教师对学生的爱）是教师从教的首要条件。这是理论逻辑，更是实践常识。但，师爱究竟是一种什么样的爱？

　　首先，师爱不是“私己的爱”。私己的爱是个人之间的爱，包括友爱、情爱、手足之爱、亲子之爱等。私己的爱可以很动人、很感人，因为爱的主体可以为爱的对象作出牺牲，甚至献出自己的一切。但私己的爱并不担负社会责任，也不追求社会效果，而且，基于私己的爱的行为有时还会损害他人或社会利益。

　　师爱超越了私己的范畴，它

     This morning I got a package from Byran & Susie, which reminds me of what I've been forgetting and losing these days-the happiness of being a teacher, a good teacher.

     After what I went through this summer vacation, I really want to quit my job as a teacher, esp. the job in my present school. I feel so tired and hurt. I feel so lost and down that I want to give up everything I've achieved, just for a job with no pressure.

     I know I have changed a lot. I'm no longer the caring and loving teacher who cares about her students so much, after being betrayed by the students again and again. All I care about now is my beloved daughter, for whom I would sacrifice eve

    刚刚细读晓晖的博文，才知道患病的宝宝竟然是陈婷婷的孩子，心里好难过！婷婷是我2000届的学生，和晓晖一个班，长得小巧玲珑，笑起来特别甜，是个人见人爱的洋娃娃。宝宝长得真像她妈妈！春节他们同学10年聚会时，大家好开心啊！

    已经电话给长梅，让她告知在响中工作的其他同学。她也很震惊！听说我要汇款，正在紧张复习迎考的丹妮拿出她所剩无几的10元压岁钱，让我一起汇给宝宝，说等宝宝长大了，要听她叫她一声“姐姐”呢！

    请伸出您善良的双手，帮助可爱的宝宝一起战胜病魔！Kindness, no matter how small, will make a big difference!

     When I was first introduced to 100e, I showed no interest in it at all and didn't even dip into it. After Mr. Li called me again some days ago, I just browsed on the website casually to safisfy my curiosity. Gradually, my interest was aroused and I wanted to have my own class online. So I contacted Mr. Li and he promised to let me have a try with 5 students for free for a month.

     Every day I spend a lot of my spare time on my class online, designing new assignments, making comments on the students' work and sending messages to their parents. It's great fun but time-consuming as well. So far I have 27 students altogether, which means a lot of work for me. Still, I hope more students will join us and benefit from learning online.

     If you are interested, welcome to click at http://yancheng.edu.100e.com/index.aspx and join us