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“认真”型或功利型：只注重学生成绩只注重知识的讲授，跟随应试转。他们只看到学生的成绩，对其他方面漠不关心（或者说是在竞争教学成绩的压力下而无暇顾及学生成长中的其他问题）。他们看的书都是围绕应试的教学辅导

心灵之约

学习的捷径是勤奋

             ——记心理社团活动

    2012

高二（7）班

在看这部片子的时候，我有很多次眼泪涌了出来。我被LIZ这个小姑娘的坚强、倔强所折服。

她爱她的妈妈

这样一个妈妈，吸毒、艾滋病，她没有给LIZ一个童年……我有很多次在想，LIZ一定会恨她的妈妈，会和妈妈断绝关系。但事实上，LIZ多么爱她的妈妈。她照顾着妈妈，保护着妈妈，关心着妈妈……

她坚持着，倔强着

我很敬佩她。如果把我换成她，我可能会选择自杀，这个世界太痛苦了……

可是她没有，她坚持着……面对死亡，面对饥饿，她可以说是不屑。这是让人震撼的力量，她爬出了深渊，沐浴到了阳光。

我们从来没有像LIZ一样无路可退过，我们没有比她的生活更糟……只是我们没有尽力过，在地铁中读书，熬夜的学习，我们从来没有尝试过。

也许挫折和逆境不是用来看轻的。它们都是生活的一部分。

LIZ让我懂得了坚持。

She earned a 95 average, and finished the top of class of 150. She did it while completing the 4 years of high school in 2. She did it while homeless, her mother was dead, her father was a drug addict living in shelters. And anyway I describe this can't do just to her accomplishment

So I'll just introduce to you our 6 NYT scholarship winner, Liz Murray.

Everything’s changed, My life will never be the same. And I don't know what else to say except for thank you. Thank you very much

Liz Liz, how did you do this?

How could I not do it? My parents showed me with the alternative was

Did you ever feel sorry for yourself?

Sorry?

Sleeping in the subway. Eating out of dumpsters

That had always been my life and I really. I feel that I got lucky, because any sense of security was pulled out from under me. So I was forced t

Welcome to Harvard guys.

It looks like what you thought it would?

Better. Unattainably better

Liz, they're just people.

Not people like me

 [Monologue] why not people like me? What made them so different? Because of where they were born? I was working as hard as I could, so I didn't end up on food stamps or house let. What... what if I work even more? I was so close to the skin now I can touch it.

It would be a reach. It’s not impossible.

Is there any other scholarships

That’s quite a few.

Write 1500 words on the important of the free market and the free world and win $500. Yeah, I don't need lead $70 of those every year.

There was some brand-new from the NYT, maybe I didn't put it in yet.

$12000, every year for 4 years

What do

Dad.

Hey, Lizzy.

I need your help, please.

Such a production. Such a production. Why don't you just stay in the Browx and go to konedy.

I don't know how to go to a normal school.

Why? Why? This isn't a normal school?

Oh, it's public, but it's like private.

Dad Dad. I think I can do this.

Yeah? That’s good. I don't think I can do this.

Yeah you can! You can! Just say you're a long horn truck driver. That’s why I just don't ever see you. We’re living with your girl friend now also.

Oh, you give me a girl friend?

Eva.

Eva! Oh, that's not good. Eva is old enough to be my mother.

Dad. I just need an address you know, a phone number they can call. They can't know I went homeless. They’ll call the city. And I'll be lo

[Monologue] Do any of us bargain for our lives? It seems to me that we just fall into them. And we have to do the best we can. My mother was dying.  My father was gone. But I had to believe there were roads would rise up to meet me. I was 15 when I went out to the world. What’s a home anyway? A roof? A bed? A place where when you go there they have to take you .If so, when I was 15, I became homeless.

Spare some change?         

Get a job

How are doing tonight?

God bless you kid.

Spare some change?

 [Monologue] but some times I felt like I never had a home in my life.

Let's go

Come back!

[Monologue] and another time I knew where ever my mom was, that's where my home was.

 [Monologue] Month by month, she was fittin