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Know that ...
you can't be all things to all peple
you can't be all things at once
you can't be all things equally well
you can't be all things better than every else
You're hunman like every else

So
find out who you are and be that
decide what comes first ,and do that
discover your strenths,and use them
lern not to compete with others
because no one else is in the contest of being you

Then you'll have...
learned to accept your uniqueness
learned to set priorities and make decisions
lerned to live with your limitations
lerned to give yourself the respect that is due
and you'll be a most vital morth

Dare to believe....
you're a wonderful ,unique person
you're a once_in_all_history evernt
That it's more than a ringht to be who you are
That life is not a problem to solve
but a gift to cherish
and you'll be able to stay one up
on anything that tries get you down

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[Frackaos]大家新年快乐

(2008-01-13 22:16)

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When Your Minds Made Up
　　
　　So
　　If you ever want something
　　You call, you call
　　And I'll come running to fight
　　And I'll be at your door
　　And there's nothing worth running for
　　
　　When your mind is made up
　　When your mind is made up
　　There's no point trying to change it
　　When your mind is made up
　　When your mind is made up
　　There's no point trying to stop it
　　
　　You see you're just like everyone
　　When you share your falls
　　All you want to do is run away
　　And hide all by yourself
　　When there's fall, there's fall
　　There's nothing else
　　
　　When your mind is made up
　　When your mind is made up
　　There's no point trying to change it
　　When your mind is made up
　　When your mind is made up
　　There's no point even talkin'
　　When your mind is made up
　　When your mind is made up
　　There's no point trying to fight it
　　When your mind, your mind
　　
　　There's no point trying to change it
　　When your
　　
　　
　　So
　　If you ever want something
　　Then you call, call
　　Then I'll come running

成都零度了，大家要注意保暖哦～

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First this winter

(2007-12-13 10:17)

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I've seen your blog, I know how you feel, and still I can image all your hard times you're getting through. They are the same as what I feel inside.
     So I can't input a single word as the evidence that I was there.
     This winer has really fallen, even I don't accept this subjectivlt, I reject it, but the real cold feeling forces me to accept the reality.
I'm sorry, I can't comfort you for now I am a person who needs comfort too. My heart is bleeding and I am scared.
     It is not the past that make me feel this way, I am not afraid of it. What really makes me feel bad is sth you know.
     I am not that strong as you think, and you are not that strong too.
     I don't know what to do.
     Maybe someday we'll get through all this. And I hope it won't be too late, coz you promised that you would never give me up.

熄灭所有令人炫惑的灯光

在黑暗的寂静中戴上准备好的面具

在钟声敲响十二下之前我要找到自己的舞伴

舞曲一支接着一支在华美的厅堂中回旋

我零乱的心情在众人的拥挤与喧哗间迷失

究竟究竟你会在哪一张面具之后

钟声就要响起可是茫然的我仍无法确定

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[行舟人]Write a poem for myself in rainy days

(2007-12-12 21:18)

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Those days are rainy,someday will be bright

The leaves of ginkgo left,the golden wind passed by

someone is briming with joy

someone is crying

somebody gets a home to return to

somebody gets lost at night

someone sobers up with a sophisticated smile

someone falls down to be drunk and sigh

Everyone notices the light ahead

nobody finds who is repenting of the lost time

The previous two pines

one pines away while the other is already out of sight

The previous oath fades

whereas it doesn't matter who lies

The previous times

they bathing in sunshine are nothing but high

The present days

what fades out in wind is not just the 'kissing goodbye'

The times have passed

the memory never die

Everything goes on

something will no longer be mine

Maybe someday ahead

I will show up again in the familiar scene

And say

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【猪宝宝】2007年双十二--栀子帮的处女博

(2007-12-12 20:45)

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重庆今天天气很好，天气预报却说有小雨，而且连续N天都是这样，对天气预报表示无限的鄙视。

晚上的时候越来越冷了，在家睡的那个晚上，老妈居然只给我了一床被子，冷的我。。。突然想起33那床8斤的被子，还有她睡觉时候的样子，开始笑。。。好可爱。

HONEY说她这个礼拜不来了，估计要等到元旦过后才来了，我得通知我爸爸叫他表杀鸡了。呵呵呵

唉，最近发现自己的话越来越少了，我觉得我只是表面上看起来很闹的人，因为我喜欢把气氛搞得很热闹，这样大家就都不会尴尬，但是我在某些人面前只想表现内心深处的一面—我发现我真的很静，有时候一边抄笔记一边听些很安静的歌，我喜欢那种之后吉他或者钢琴伴奏的歌，很纯粹的感觉。心情好的时候我会排好每首歌的顺序，然后慢慢的用顺序播放来放，永远知道下一首歌是什么，很有安全感。我还喜欢听一些老歌，每次听的时候我都像回到了第一次听到它们的时候。当歌曲放完的时候，我就会听见钢笔的笔尖在纸上摩擦的声音，和自己的心跳，很奇妙的感觉。这些东西都很真实，钢笔写出来的字，和经过岁月却未曾改变的心情，它们都很真实，很强大。大多数时候，我们能和谐相处，但有时候，我只有被它们和谐的份。

冬天到了好久了，今年我似乎还有没经历每年冬天都必须经历几次的我的“间歇性抽筋”，我有预感它离我越来越近了。因为有时候一些细小的东西都能勾起我的思绪，我有两个日记本，一个是给大家看的，另外一个是给我自己看的。给大家看的东西很阳光，因为我想要温暖我的朋友们，想让他们放心。而给自己看的日记，就只是为自己准备的，上面有很多阴暗面，以至于我写完了之后就没有再翻它的勇气了。

妈妈又要去出差了，她最近貌似比我爸还忙。忙呗，她说她是事业型女性，我汗，我看了几十年都没看出来。不过我外婆到是个不折不扣的事业型女人。想她了，她还没有等到我搬回重庆就去了，sigh。。。。。

最近一直喜欢用手揉乱我的头发，不知道这是什么情绪的表现。有机会问问大勾子，北师的心理学研究生。还记得有次我们去打球，我看他发短信，问他是不是处女座的男人，他说，你怎么知道？我说，你发短信每次总是发满70个字，不是处女座男人才怪。说到处女座，HONEY和Kid的月亮星座都是处女座，而且两个都是土象星座的人，居然还能和我关系那么好，HONEY 说偶太强悍了。周围两个最能说话的人都是和自己星座最不配的人，我简直就是PF自己！！！！！！

其实想想看，也许真的，和自己性格互补的人才能真正的走进我的心里。已经有太多的人给我说过，我表面上看起来是很好交往的，但大多数都流于表面，很难有人走进我的内心。但是那些走进我内心深处的人们啊，在我把你们当作自己人以后是否就和以前认识的我不一样了？我话开始变少，笑开始温和，性格有时激烈，更多的时候是平和，你们都还适应么？当你们发现这个我和你们最初认识的不一样的时候会不会离开我？

我发现我自己真的是在成都和在重庆就不是一个人，在重庆的时候我很收敛，到处都表现的很贤淑，在成都的时候很张扬，很闹。我的双面性格啊，我都不知道哪面是我自己了。发觉自己喜欢上成都了，怎么办？是因为很多重要的人都在以成都为中心辐射的圈子里面吧？我舍不得离开的人们。

暖暖的秋日午后

有一个人在你的身边

用片断的深情昭示永远

生命第一次想细数日子缓缓流过

我深远的幸福

如同丛树的缝隙抑或星群间的彩云

那么就让我们从此

尝试微笑尝试用同一根手臂抚摸黎明

Love is real, real is love
Love is feeling, feeling love
Love is wanting to be loved

Love is touch, touch is love
Love is reaching, reaching love
Love is asking to be loved

Love is you, You and me
Love is knowing, We can be

Love is free, free is love
Love is living, living love
Love is needing to be loved

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